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Ex partner left me with huge debts

This man has used had my credit profile checked to get a car and a personal loan. Is this fraud? I have also just received a letter from the Halifax addressed to his ex wife regarding a change of address. Is this fraud? I can't do anything about the debts as they are all in my name. He made me give up work and was supposed to be paying the bills but he was stashing the money away. Probably in his ex wifes bank account. He has moved on to his next target and I'd like to put a stop to his carry ons. Please give me suggestions.
Jan
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  • Paparika
    Paparika Posts: 2,476 Forumite
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    Sorry to hear he did this to you, if all the debts are in your name then i am afraid he's landed you right in it.
    Life is about give and take, if you can't give why should you take?
  • janheals
    janheals Posts: 11 Forumite
    I know. I have been to CAB. It's the fraud bit I'm interested in really.
  • jinky67
    jinky67 Posts: 47,812 Forumite
    I suggest you post this in the debt free wannabe forum for loads of advice...they are lovely peeps in there
    :heartpulsOnce a Flylady, always a Flylady:heartpuls
  • ceebeeby
    ceebeeby Posts: 4,357 Forumite
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    Are the police interested?

    Name and shame in woman's mag?
  • DigitalJedi
    DigitalJedi Posts: 951 Forumite
    Sorry its not clear to me.

    The debts are in your name but did you sign the credit agreement forms? Did the money for the loans ever come into your bank account (either single or joint). If you did sign then its not fraud and you are liable.

    If you did not sign and/or the money never hit your account then it is fraud and you should inform the police, tell them you have no knowledge of the loans until now.
  • pinkshoes
    pinkshoes Posts: 20,675 Forumite
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    If he's taken loans out in your name without your permission, then yes, that's fraud.

    Any loan that you signed for, you are responsible for.
    Should've = Should HAVE (not 'of')
    Would've = Would HAVE (not 'of')

    No, I am not perfect, but yes I do judge people on their use of basic English language. If you didn't know the above, then learn it! (If English is your second language, then you are forgiven!)
  • janheals
    janheals Posts: 11 Forumite
    All I know is that on my credit report I have had searches done regarding loans. I have signed nothing and I have had no money. Is this enough to go to the police with? I have written to Experian. And I have written to the Halifax regarding hiw wifes bank account.
    And thanks for the advice about debt free wannabe. I will go there too.
    Thank you for all your help
  • onlyroz
    onlyroz Posts: 17,661 Forumite
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    If you are "linked" financially to him then any credit he applies for might result in a search of your credit report. Do/did you have a joint mortgage or a joint loan with him?
  • Cat695
    Cat695 Posts: 3,647 Forumite
    GO TO THE POLICE OF COURSE ITS ILLEGAL!!!! someone else can't get a loan in your name so it sounds like his ex is playing you when they go to the bank?? forging your signature??? jesus i would have been to the police yesterday

    go banging on the banks door etc

    THIS IS BLOODY FRAUD SIMPLE
    If you find yourself in a fair fight, then you have failed to plan properly


    I've only ever been wrong once! and that was when I thought I was wrong but I was right
  • Marker_2
    Marker_2 Posts: 3,260 Forumite
    Yes its fraud, once my OH (when he wasnt my OH) appl;ied for something online which cost £30, I know I didnt make that purchase so I rang up my credit card company to say this, they told me to ring the purchase company to find out about it then ring them back and they would inform the police and make a case out of it - somewhere in this i realised it was my OH and made him fess up, good scaring technique - might use it again!
    99.9% of my posts include sarcasm!
    Touch my bum :money:
    Tesco - £1000 , Carpet - £20, Barclaycard - £50, HSBC - £50 + Car - £1700
    SAVED =£0
    Debts - £2850
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