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  • Jules, everyone seems to be having the same prob today with the smilies..I know I am at least!! Hopefully will be sorted by tomorow.
    Made it - 15 years married!! Finally!! xx:beer:
  • http://www.printedtp.com/

    For the ultimate revenge, give your ex a present, some loo roll with pics of their 'moose' on it.
  • Juneno
    Juneno Posts: 81 Forumite
    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:taking fuse out plug,bet she comes home a little worse for wear and tries to get on pc and cannot and wonders why;)


    :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:


    My smilies have had a nervous breakdown as well - gone on smiley holiday!

    Seriously thinking about sending you me email as I'm a nosy cow and would like to see the mooses (or meese?:confused: )

    Hope the night out goes (or went) well!

    xx
  • Juneno
    Juneno Posts: 81 Forumite
    chilli_dog wrote: »
    http://www.printedtp.com/

    For the ultimate revenge, give your ex a present, some loo roll with pics of their 'moose' on it.


    Brilliant! I'll keep this ....never know when I may have to use it!!:D
  • julie2710
    julie2710 Posts: 1,381 Forumite
    Don't know if anyone is around. OHs just left the house with a car load of stuff! Wardrobes are empty - toiletries gone - I cleared out some of the cupboards today and put all his stuff in a box so his taken that too. He's coming back to sleep tonight in the spare room then going to get his furniture tomorrow!
    I've just eaten half a bar of mint Aero - can't drink in my state but the aero will probably make me feel sick anyway!
    Will have a busy weekend ahead of me spreading my stuff out and tidying a couple more rooms!!
    Hope everyone's having a fab nite! I might try and have an early one:beer:
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    Hio Jules
    Onwards and upwards from here hun.
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  • Hi Jules, so how are you feeling? Its a hard time when they leave, I blubbed all night and drank a hell of a lot!!
    Its getting easier now. Just rang him cos he rang whilst we were walking out of the door to the party, and woke him up!! haha!! He does start work really early - like 4am, but still, you know, single? bloke just been paid, I would have been down the local pub at least!! haha
    Made it - 15 years married!! Finally!! xx:beer:
  • Are you ok Julie?
  • julie2710
    julie2710 Posts: 1,381 Forumite
    Actually feel really relaxed and calm! I think he's probably regretting things a bot before he's even gone. I said to him earlier that I would need to make arrangements to get son to nursery when I come out of hospital as I won't be able to drive for 6 weeks and he said he would come and take him!!?? :confused: Seems a bit odd as he is moving 30-40 mins away from here and son needs to be at nursery for 8am then he would have to go back to just up the road from where he's moving to get to work???
    My mum asked me today if I would let him stay if he asked and I said no as I can't really get past what he did and his crap timing! She thinks he's confused, but I said he should have just taken some time out not gone off and shagged some tart!!
    Don't know if I could ever trust him again now - if he could do it just before I give birth, he doesn't have very high standards.
    Maybe it will hit me later but for now looking forward to the weekend!:o
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    LBM Dec12 excl mort 47,207/42,784 Dec13
    Excl mortg and CTC 39,578/35,995 Dec13
    Incl mortg 230,035/214,454 Dec13

    Extra payment a week:this week £0 / YTD£1,457.55
  • Julie you sound amazingly strong,so dignified, good for you. I bet he can't believe how you are handling it.
    Is it all over with the other woman now?
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