Single and in debt.

jakemuk

TDQO wrote: »

Well it's none of their business until it affects the relationship.

So if you're just casually seeing each other then you don't need to say more than "I'd rather do things that aren't expensive as I'm a bit skint atm".

However if you're thinking of moving in with each other or going on holiday together or something like that then you need to be totally upfront and as soon as it's mentioned be like "look, I have some serious financial issues and can't afford it"

There's no point scaring someone off before you've had a chance to see where it's going.

Yeah true, Its just i dont like lieing like, Like to be honest to a women so sometimes i have covered it up, But as you put it like that it seems different

jakemuk

sarahb123 wrote: »

2 are, 1 wishes he was. We apologise for spelling:D

what ya drinking ? lol

TDQO

Lula-Hula wrote: »

aaaha,

you werent joiking about the harem were you... you actually love being the only blokey on here - sussed

Well.... yes. Seeing as I get exactly "0" female attentuion in real life I turn to the internet...

sarahb123_3

TDQO wrote: »

Well it's none of their business until it affects the relationship.

So if you're just casually seeing each other then you don't need to say more than "I'd rather do things that aren't expensive as I'm a bit skint atm".

However if you're thinking of moving in with each other or going on holiday together or something like that then you need to be totally upfront and as soon as it's mentioned be like "look, I have some serious financial issues and can't afford it"

There's no point scaring someone off before you've had a chance to see where it's going.

TDQ how dare you be sensible. Are you at work or something

jakemuk

Lula-Hula wrote: »

yaha,

we're actually very inteeligent wordy types normally :rolleyes:

anyway -

as to when confessing to debts I would say that rather depends on how much the debts impinge on your lifestyle & how serious the dating is .

tell us more .... & we'll try to help as best we can

what ya drinking to .

Well at the minute they dont realy impinge id say, But i have a thing for the older women ya see, So idealy would prefer to not have the debt hanging over me head if u see wat i mean

Lula-Hula

TDQO wrote: »

Well.... yes. Seeing as I get exactly "0" female attentuion in real life I turn to the internet...

Awwww, now you got me feeling all maternal & wanting to hug you :kisses3: Kerfuffle - hello

sarahb123_3

Kerfuffle wrote: »

:rotfl: jakemuk, if I was you I'd run to the hills and save yourself, it's too late for TDQO he's well and truly caught.:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

*hides big net*#

Whatever are you talking about?

jakemuk

sarahb123 wrote: »

*hides big net*#

Whatever are you talking about?

Sarah what is this net :eek: :rotfl:

Lula-Hula

we're just retoxing jakemuk - you woudnt be a farmer by any chance ?

TDQO

jakemuk wrote: »

what ya drinking to .

Well at the minute they dont realy impinge id say, But i have a thing for the older women ya see, So idealy would prefer to not have the debt hanging over me head if u see wat i mean

To be honest there are very few people in this world that DONT have debts so the chances are that anyone you hook up with will have debts too. What kind of magnitude are we talking? If you're total debts are less than about 2yrs salary I wouldn't panic. If they're bigger then maybe you should worry less about women and more about becoming DFW!

Sarah: Yep I'm at work and slowly rotting.