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Single and in debt.

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  • Lula-Hula
    Lula-Hula Posts: 7,868 Forumite
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    jakemuk wrote: »
    That im not the only one single and in debt realy :)



    hold the trnaquiliser gun sarah -


    aha, but you may well be the only one who's sober on this side of the planet :rolleyes:
  • sarahb123_3
    sarahb123_3 Posts: 2,767 Forumite
    TDQO wrote: »
    Oh wait, I just blew my whole "manly man" cover didn't I?

    if it helps, no one was fooled:D
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  • Lula-Hula
    Lula-Hula Posts: 7,868 Forumite
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    TDQO wrote: »
    Well done! 11.55 according to my PC.

    I'd better leave if Sarah's getting her tranq gun out... don't want to wake up and find myself tied to a radiator! :p


    you wish ;)
  • jakemuk
    jakemuk Posts: 973 Forumite
    Lula-Hula wrote: »
    hold the trnaquiliser gun sarah -


    aha, but you may well be the only one who's sober on this side of the planet :rolleyes:

    are you lot on the bevvys then ?
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  • sarahb123_3
    sarahb123_3 Posts: 2,767 Forumite
    sarahb123 wrote: »
    ooh yes, a man who fixes drinks and bogs off.

    *wishes she was in hart to hart or in dallas at oil baron's ball*

    In the above shows they were too grand to fill their own glasses, thety just held them out and a man in a white jacket came along and filled them with barely a murmer from either party.
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  • Lula-Hula
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    aaaha,

    you werent joiking about the harem were you... you actually love being the only blokey on here - sussed ;)
  • TDQO
    TDQO Posts: 807 Forumite
    jakemuk wrote: »
    could i ask a question, probs been covered many times before, But if ur dating someone whens best time to drop in the money issues, Have to say i have covered it up before :(


    Well it's none of their business until it affects the relationship.

    So if you're just casually seeing each other then you don't need to say more than "I'd rather do things that aren't expensive as I'm a bit skint atm".

    However if you're thinking of moving in with each other or going on holiday together or something like that then you need to be totally upfront and as soon as it's mentioned be like "look, I have some serious financial issues and can't afford it"

    There's no point scaring someone off before you've had a chance to see where it's going.
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  • sarahb123_3
    sarahb123_3 Posts: 2,767 Forumite
    jakemuk wrote: »
    are you lot on the bevvys then ?

    2 are, 1 wishes he was. We apologise for spelling:D
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  • Kerfuffle
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    :rotfl: jakemuk, if I was you I'd run to the hills and save yourself, it's too late for TDQO he's well and truly caught.:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
  • Lula-Hula
    Lula-Hula Posts: 7,868 Forumite
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    jakemuk wrote: »
    are you lot on the bevvys then ?


    yaha,

    we're actually very inteeligent wordy types normally :rolleyes:

    anyway -

    as to when confessing to debts I would say that rather depends on how much the debts impinge on your lifestyle & how serious the dating is .

    tell us more .... & we'll try to help as best we can ;)
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