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  • fermi
    fermi Posts: 40,542 Forumite
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    Scunthorpe sometimes doesn't get filtered. wink.gif
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  • I only managed a minge...........
    Blackadder: Am I jumping the gun, Baldrick, or are the words 'I have a cunning plan' marching with ill-deserved confidence in the direction of this conversation?
    Still lurking around with a hope of some salvation:cool:
  • In_Search_Of_Me
    In_Search_Of_Me Posts: 10,634 Forumite
    Found this last night & wanted to have a think before posting...At the end of the day the journey is yours and yours alone. Its not for others to say how you should live your life and you shouldnt feel you have to justify what you do.
    I have missed all the shenagians so dont know who said what, to who or when! Some people come on here to help, some to lounge (& snipe) in the misery of others. Some know how hard it is to get rid of debts and understand that none of us is perfect! Your tatoo is my new kitten...know I shouldnt but I did & at the end of the day that is my/your choice and we are only accountable to ourselves.
    Just sort the wheat from the chaff and move on. As long as you know you are doing your best thats all that counts.I had a few months off & it did me the world of good. MSE is addictive after all and with the increasing emergence of trolls its ever more important to live a life in the real world rather than spend much time on here being bashed...bound to affect anyones self esteem.
    On the other side of the coin if you say on one hand you have no money but then spend on a TV, tatoo etc then I think you have to accept that people may say "are you sure you want to do this?". That should be it though - if you choose to then thats your choice but at least people have been honest in response to the ? "should I do it...". We are all different & while I would like people I know to say "youre hopeless" (ie when I got Alfie..but hes sooo cute!!!) and then respect your decision. Unfortunately there re those who think, despite not knowing you, thats its ok to just wade in with criticism...for those reading - its not ok! This is our own individual journey and none of us have the right to tell others what to do. Express concern in a loving way, yes but be abusive, no!
    So for IA etc hang in there, dust yourself off and return stronger, with new user name if needs be and continue to fight that blight that is debt..will take you longer if you buy stuff but that your choice isnt it eh! Good luck with the CAB stuff and let me know if you need help with essays (& cutting words down!)...I've done sooo many that chopping has become an art form!
    Nerd no 109 Long haulers supporters DFW #1! Even in the darkest moments, love and hope are always possible.

  • Numpty_Monkey
    Numpty_Monkey Posts: 14,196 Forumite
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    fermi wrote: »
    Scunthorpe sometimes doesn't get filtered. ;)

    Maybe that a BGs privalige:p :confused:
    (i still got the BeeGee pic:p ):rotfl:
    Come on tigtag how do you do it :eek:
    PROUD TO BE DEALING WITH MY DEBT NERD #869
    Numpty,Not sure why but I'm crying :o . Of all the peeps on this board you're the kindest & most supportive of all & I'm :mad: & :( for you all at the same time . Wish I was there to give you a big :grouphug: & emergency hobnobs
    xx
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  • In_Search_Of_Me
    In_Search_Of_Me Posts: 10,634 Forumite
    BTW there are alot of !!!!!!s out there...just for the swear filter you understand!! The ? is have they updated it...
    Nerd no 109 Long haulers supporters DFW #1! Even in the darkest moments, love and hope are always possible.

  • In_Search_Of_Me
    In_Search_Of_Me Posts: 10,634 Forumite
    ahhh they finally sussed that w*an*k*e*rs was a word that should be filtered! :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
    Nerd no 109 Long haulers supporters DFW #1! Even in the darkest moments, love and hope are always possible.

  • Snaggles
    Snaggles Posts: 19,503 Forumite
    Wankers? What's wrong with that? ;)
    "I wasn't wrong, I just wasn't right enough."
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  • tigtag02
    tigtag02 Posts: 6,857 Forumite
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    Maybe that a BGs privalige:p :confused:
    (i still got the BeeGee pic:p ):rotfl:
    Come on tigtag how do you do it :eek:

    do what :confused::confused:;)
    Snaggles wrote: »
    Wankers? What's wrong with that? ;)

    Is wankers swearing?
    :heartpuls baby no3 due 16th November :heartpuls
    TEAM YELLOW
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  • Come on then confess..how do you get it past the swear filter?

    Just trying for clarification purposes// !!!!!!s?
    Blackadder: Am I jumping the gun, Baldrick, or are the words 'I have a cunning plan' marching with ill-deserved confidence in the direction of this conversation?
    Still lurking around with a hope of some salvation:cool:
  • tigtag02
    tigtag02 Posts: 6,857 Forumite
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    Snaggles wrote: »
    *snigger*

    You just highlight part of the word and change the font colour to black (on 'Go Advanced').

    As the font is black anyway, it makes no difference to how the word appears on here, but it puts a bit of code in the middle of the word, and the swear filter no longer recognises it.

    Eeek, hope I don't get in trouble for that!!! (Sorry Martin :A :A)

    :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:

    I cant believe you caved

    :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:
    :heartpuls baby no3 due 16th November :heartpuls
    TEAM YELLOW
    DFD 16/6/10
    "Shut your gob! Or I'll come round your houses and stamp on all your toys" The ONE, the ONLY, the LEGENDARY Gene Hunt :heart2:
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