Living Nightmare!!

Kaz2904

Big hugs for you.

aligerdie

sorry to hear things are going so bad for you right now, I really hope your dad starts to make a speedy recovery for you, I think everyone who has read this thread will be thinking of you all.

Take care of you x

Muppet81

What a rotten time you are having.
Some really sound advice from the others.
Just wanted to say that I am thinking about you and hope that you get some good news about your dad soon.
Hugs
xxxx

sylphraven

Oh Daisychain, you are having it rough, just popped into give big hugs from me. Theres always people on here who will give you a shoulder to cry on, & some sound advice when you need it. Take care of yourself & deal with you problems & worries one at a time. I find it handy to write lists, makes me feel happier & like I'm progressing to be able to tick things off - Your Dad is obviously top of your worries so why not busy yourself by getting a few things together for him to do in hospital, you can either take them to him or post them.

mrcow

Hi. I hope that you had a good visit with our Dad and that he's okay. Don't be hard on him for his attitude. People have different comping mechanisms and it's better that he's feeling upbeat about things......some people are just troopers and nothing can get in their way.

With regards to the job, well it will work out, it just takes time and work. You have lots on your plate and being there for your parents are the most imporant thing. Have you posted an SOA up to see where any savings could be made on your monthly expenditure etc? During times of financial drought, it can be a worthwhile exercise.

Losing a pet is very hard. They are such an important part of any family. Have you marker their passing in any way? Perhaps by framing a special photo, or putting together a box of their "things"? It can help. I still have to scatter the ashes of my beloved rabbits that we lost two years ago as I still find it so hard to think about letting go.

count_rostov

Poor, poor you, it's all coming at once. Thinking of you xx

daisychain80

thank u all so much for your advice and kind words, my dad is awake ad talkin but they have now found a hole in one of his kidneys which is where they think the clot has come from-which is slowly reducing and is currently at the top of his thigh!! i no he's a little better coz he is complaining hes missin the golf on tv -lol. Keeping fingers crossed and will c him tom, all this happend when he was away with work so hes in hosp over 2 hrs drive away so need to be up early. xx

serena

Hi daisychain,

just popped back in to see if there was any news. I have been thinking of you on and off today.

Try and get a restful night, and enjoy spending as much time as you can with your Dad.

Hugs.

shopndrop

Sending hugs too. I had a horrible time 3 years ago when everything seemed to be going wrong including my dad in Intensive Care. I found it made it easier for me just to type up how I felt each day and how dad was so that after a few days I could at least see there was some improvement even though from day to day I didn't think so. Thinking of you and hoping things improve soon.