Please post your condolence messages here for our special friend Weller

ifonlyitwaseasier

i'm so sorry to hear that,

you are in our prayers Weller & family

x

Lula-Hula

So sorry for your loss,
Thinking of you,

with love
Lula x

EmptyPockets

Weller, I have only recently started posting on here again after some time away, so we have probably not spoken before. But, I had to post and say how genuinly sorry I am to hear what has happened. If it is any small consolation at all, please know that reading your posts has made me sit up and appreciate more exactly what I have in life. Hopefully when you are ready, our words can help you feel a little better.

Love and (((hugs))) to you xxx

chickpee

My thoughts are with you and your family and I hope that fond and happy memories will help you through the sad times.

Take care.

xxx

scorched_earth_erotica

I'm ever so sorry to hear about your news weller. I hope you and your family are holding up ok.

beanielou

Finally found this.
Says it all really me thinks.

Funeral Blues
W.H. Auden

Stop all the clocks, cut off the telephone,
Prevent the dog from barking with a juicy bone,
Silence the pianos and with muffled drum
Bring out the coffin, let the mourners come.
Let aeroplanes circle moaning overhead
Scribbling on the sky the message He is Dead.
Put crepe bows round the white necks of the public doves,
Let the traffic policemen wear black cotton gloves.
He was my North, my South, my East and West,
My working week and my Sunday rest,
My noon, my midnight, my talk, my song;
I thought that love would last forever: I was wrong.
The stars are not wanted now; put out every one,
Pack up the moon and dismantle the sun,
Pour away the ocean and sweep up the woods;
For nothing now can ever come to any good.

Molanole

Weller

I don't think we've ever spoken on here before but as a DFW I feel a connection and community on this board which naturally makes me concerned about everyone on here as though I know them personally.

I just had to post to offer my condolences. None of this will be making sense right now but clearly there are a number of people here who are there to prop you up when you need them. There may be times when you need someone "faceless" to talk to, everyone on DFW is here for you.

Keep hold of the good memories, cherish them. To start with they may be painful or make you feel angry or resentful but in time, baby steps remember, I promise that they will carry you through the good times and the bad like a trusted friend.

And everyone handles grief differently. So don't let anyone tell you what you should do. But don't ever think you are alone. You have the fantastic people of DFW here at all times of the day and night if ever you need the support.

My thoughts are with you and your family. Look after yourself.

Mel x

countrymusicfan

Dear friend, I, too, lost my husband in my case nine years ago. I know it hurts. Look for grieving places on the net. At the beginning it helps to think of little rituals to keep him in mind, but after a while, they will lessen. Anniversaries will always be hard as will the songs sung at the funeral. Please pm me if you want to talk to someone who has been there.

honey

Weller, I am so so sorry. My thoughts are with you, your children and your family xxx

DreamerHelen

Weller, my heart goes out to you, I know we haven 't spoken before but I pray that you will find peace over the coming months.