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  • trudij
    trudij Posts: 1,905 Forumite
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    thats awful - thoughts are with you all.

    xx
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  • csarina
    csarina Posts: 2,557 Forumite
    I came across this post by accident, Weller I am so sad for you and your family. When someone comparatively young dies it seems so cruel, but remember the strength which carried you through the hard times will continue through this. There will be light at the end of the tunnel, it may be a long time before you see it, but you will........do not be afraid to be sad and cry, it is allowed, accept any help that is offered to you that will make your life in the coming months slightly easier, you and your children will never forget Andy, but at the same time you will have wonderful memories of your life together, no one can take this away from you...........I send you and your family my deepest sypathy in your sad loss. My God be with you in the coming difficult days.
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  • Terribly sorry to hear about your sad news. My thoughts are with you and remember we're all here to help and support you through your difficult times...
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  • lemma1968
    lemma1968 Posts: 1,379 Forumite
    I'm so sorry to hear your news.

    My thoughts and love go out to you and the children.:kisses3:
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  • aligerdie
    aligerdie Posts: 576 Forumite
    Weller, I have never spoken to you before, but I have read some of your posts before.

    I just want to say how terribly sorry I am to hear your tragic news. I hope the love and support of your family and friends will help you through this difficult time right now.

    Everyones thoughts are with you, please take care of yourself. xx
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  • moggylover
    moggylover Posts: 13,324 Forumite
    Hi Weller, caught the situation the other night when it happened, and posted on the other thread but although we had never "spoken\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\2 before that - just wanted to say again how sad I am for you and your family at this awful time.

    I know that you will feel so terribly alone at this moment in time, but just look on here and although none of us alone could help - I think you will see that there are a lot of sad and tearful people sending you their strength and their love and their support and wishing we could just be there to give you a hug!

    Take care, take it one day at a time, and keep looking at your kids cos they will be your sunshine: as mine were mine.

    Hugs
    Debbie
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  • Hello


    I appologise for not being in the know of your circumstances but as a fellow poster I just wanted to add my sympathy and hope that you will find comfort in the kind warm and friendly words of all here. I am sorry to hear the news and offer my best wishes for you and your family and be strong and have the courage to pull through this. hugs to you all.

    Many thanks for the help you have given and we are al here for you when you feel ready to reunite with us, until then our thoughts are with you.



    PS I do not mean to cause offence with my screen-name felt I must point this out as much as it is important to offer my sincere condolances.

    Love, peace & light xxxx

    Heddwen.
  • chevalier
    chevalier Posts: 7,937 Forumite
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    Weller and family. What can one say at a time like this. I think the disbelief is worse, my step dad passed away very suddenly as well, having been a very fit man. No warning just he was gone. Even after all this time remembering makes me cry.

    But when someone young goes, is taken too soon then nothing is more painful. I can't imagine what you are feeling, but I can empathise with the shock this is.

    Now is the time to say yes to people. If anyone can take some of the load off you say yes. It is NOT a sign of not coping, it is a sign of recognising that you can't be strong and do everything now. Your focus will be on your children and getting them through so let others help YOU get through.

    As I said before I am in New Zealand and look on here several times during our day, which is your night, so I will be here is you want to vent.
    my thoughts are with you at this terrible tragic time
    chev and family

    And thank you for reminding how important family is even if they drive you up the wall at times.
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  • Mozette
    Mozette Posts: 2,247 Forumite
    So very sorry. Thinking of you
  • mizmir
    mizmir Posts: 3,710 Forumite
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    Dear Weller - I have just come back to the board after a couple of weeks away and have just heard about your tragic loss. I am so very sorry. Thinking of you and your family.
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