Dont know how to get through the day

jo78

hi Hun i just wanted to say i know how you r feeling i found out i was pregnant just after new year but had a miscarriage in February i was a week of my three month scan
like you i didn't cope very well i don't think id have got through only for my two wonderful boys but it does get easier with time i just kept telling myself that there was something wrong with the baby and that it was for the best
i know that's not what you want to here right know you want to wake up and its all been a mistake
but talk about it i didn't and last month our friends had a baby and i was made up for them but it still hurt and me and my hubby had a huge row we are okay now but men don't get miscarriage to them its only real when the baby is here but to women its real as soon as the test shows positive
any way big hugs again
I'm thinking of you

ms.prong

Just wanted to say that I am sorry for your loss and lots of ((((((hugs)))))))

curly_cabbage

Me too

CC

Sorry didn't press the quote button on katiekitkat post to put the me too in contexted.

CC

searching_me

i dont know what to say but i recently went through an ectopic pregnancy were i had to have surgery to have it removed... as like you we'd been trying and i still remember the day i found out and the day they told me they were taking it away my heart broke to so i understand your pain... you have to give yourself time cry if you need to cry let it out dont expect to much from yourself you need time to heal... poo things happened and believe me if i told you half the stuff id been through it'd scare you... so just take care of yourself and remember if you OH aint there to talk we are xxx

nesssie1702

Toria27 - sorry to hear your news, you've had a bit of a bad run of it. I hope that things will get better for you and remember, take care of yourself.

foreversomeday

Oh hun, I hope you feel better soon and remember just because it wasn't later on and people don't see it as a "baby" it doesn't change how you feel, could you change your doctor if you don't like the one you have? It sounds like you could do with some support. There are plenty of free services around who could and would want to help you and you don't need to feel alone, I promise.

kyh

Another really supportive site is http://www.mumszone.co.uk - lots of friendly folk on there who can provide lots of love and support. I hope you start to feel better soon -our thoughts are with you.

loobylou2

Nothing I can add to what other people have said I'm afraid but am thinking of you and please look after yourself. Sending you love and hugs!!!!

angelpie62

hi,first post but been lurking for ages..
just wanted to say i know how you feel.i lost a baby at 7 weeks and 2 days. i had no friends or family close and my(then)husband didn't really understand the pain i was going through.my doctor wasn't the most supportive person either..

so i planted a rose in memory of my baby and funnily enough it always blooms with the most gorgeous smell there is around what would have been my due date.
as with the other posts,
thinking of you,take care of yourself and sending you a big hug xx xx

angelpie62

hi,first post but been lurking for ages..
just wanted to say i know how you feel.i lost a baby at 7 weeks and 2 days. i had no friends or family close and my(then)husband didn't really understand the pain i was going through.my doctor wasn't the most supportive person either..

so i planted a rose in memory of my baby and funnily enough it always blooms with the most gorgeous smell there is around what would have been my due date.
as with the other posts,
thinking of you,take care of yourself and sending you a big hug xx xx