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  • gundo
    gundo Posts: 258 Forumite
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    I'm very sorry you're having a hard time with your relationship but I have to admit that I'm irritated and offended by the thread title "men..." It's a horrible prejudiced sweeping statement. We are not all like you suspect your partner might be and I resent the implication.

    I sincerely hope you get things sorted. I can only suggest you have an open and honest conversation about your fears/suspicions with him.
    Trying hard to be a good moneysaver.
  • pandora205
    pandora205 Posts: 2,939 Forumite
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    Sorry to ask something pretty obvious but do you have an agreement that you are in an exclusive relationship? Sometimes if it hasn't been discussed one or other person isn't committed solely to their partner. Did you ever discuss this (and I know it is hard to have that conversation)?

    I'd be suspicious in your circumstances and have to ask, otherwise it would cause anxiety and lack of trust.
    somewhere between Heaven and Woolworth's
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