Eeeeek it's my Race for Life tonight!!!

immoral_angeluk

lennymfo wrote: »

Would you like me to rub it in for you?

You can massage my aching muscles later

System

:rotfl: ooo got to lie down, blood pressure has just gone up

tigtag02

We're all proud of you Sar, including your mum and mine

Me and the girls are going to do it next year too in memory of my mum ~ maybe we could do it together

jinky67

good luck

immoral_angeluk

tigtag02 wrote: »

We're all proud of you Sar, including your mum and mine

Me and the girls are going to do it next year too in memory of my mum ~ maybe we could do it together

Definately. Sounds like a plan. We can find one that's halfway between yours and mine
How are you hun? Daft question I know..

tigtag02

immoral_angeluk wrote: »

Definately. Sounds like a plan. We can find one that's halfway between yours and mine
How are you hun? Daft question I know..

There's that or I could come to you or you could come to me ~ a good plan though either way!!

I'm bearing up, its the funeral today so I'm really not prepared for that but know that it needs to happen.

I just gotta take one day at a time I supose.

jimsmum

Good luck :T :T

immoral_angeluk

tigtag02 wrote: »

There's that or I could come to you or you could come to me ~ a good plan though either way!!

I'm bearing up, its the funeral today so I'm really not prepared for that but know that it needs to happen.

I just gotta take one day at a time I supose.

Oh hun... :grouphug:
I know that what I say won't make much sense at the moment.. I know I wa just numb and on autopilot for at least 6 months after my mum died. But the funeral will help. Sounds daft but it's not about saying goodbye really... it's about knowing that your mum will now be with you wherever you are.. and not just 'at home' or 'at the shops'. Although you won't see her physically... you'll always have her with you wheter you're aware of it or not. I still get little clues every now and then that mum is watching over me. Hard to explain... but whenever I'm having a down day or thinking of her... something will happen that'll make me stop and think 'Mum did that'. You know? Just little things that I always associate with her...
For example the new years eve after she died we had a party at ours. On the stroke of midnight one of her old bells which you wind up and played a little song and hadn't worked for years, all of a sudden started playing, completely on it's own.
I'm a big believer that no matter where you are, death is just like a gap until you see them again. They're aren't gone... they're just somewhere else waiting for you to be reunited.
Take each day as it comes hun. It's the hardest thing you can ever go through and for me it still hurts nearly 3 years on. The pain will ease, but the memories will last a lifetime and remember her as the healthy wonderful person she was, rather than what she was under the disease.

Sending massive hugs and I'm always around if you ever want to vent or chat to someone who's been through the same thing hun.
:grouphug:

boredofbeingathome

Good luck Sar, you will be absoultely fine..weather is just right, not too hot, not too cold...with a touch of rain to cool you down....

And Tigtag, hun you are a very strong lady...I hope everything goes ok today.Best wishes to you both.
BOB X

immoral_angeluk

Jinky :eek::eek::eek::grouphug::grouphug: