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Character Reference

Not sure if this is the right forum but I'm trying to find out how to get a character reference about someone,
ie, do they have previous convictions or had charges against them. any help would be appreciated. Ashes
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  • can i just ask why you are after the character reference? Only if it was for a job then you would follow the HR protocol and refer to the application. Seeing as you have not done this i am a little wary as why you would want this?
  • Ashes
    Ashes Posts: 31 Forumite
    An unsavoury character is trying to get custody
    of my sisters Grandson and we know
    he has been sacked for downloading !!!!!! on the Internet
    so we need to find out about this guy.
  • katiecoodle
    katiecoodle Posts: 352 Forumite
    100 Posts
    oh good grief. Can you ask the police about how to access the sex offenders register? Not sure who is allowed access to that.
    Also - why not pretend you're an employer & ask his previous employer (the one who sacked him) for a reference - get them to fax or write to you. They're unlikely to be really nasty but you could ask for specifics on why his contract was terminated & they have to tell you the truth...
  • Ashes
    Ashes Posts: 31 Forumite
    oh good grief. Can you ask the police about how to access the sex offenders register? Not sure who is allowed access to that.
    Also - why not pretend you're an employer & ask his previous employer (the one who sacked him) for a reference - get them to fax or write to you. They're unlikely to be really nasty but you could ask for specifics on why his contract was terminated & they have to tell you the truth...
    I need to know how to get results without the pretence, but thanks for your thoughts though. Ashes
  • dmg24
    dmg24 Posts: 33,920 Forumite
    10,000 Posts
    Ashes wrote: »
    An unsavoury character is trying to get custody
    of my sisters Grandson and we know
    he has been sacked for downloading !!!!!! on the Internet
    so we need to find out about this guy.

    I think you will find that a great majority of the adult population have downloaded !!!!!! (albeit not at work)! I don't see the problem in this?
    Gone ... or have I?
  • FlameCloud
    FlameCloud Posts: 1,952 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    The police can do a report, you would however need a legal reason, as well as the persons permission, which he is highly unlikely to give.

    At the moment you have no legal right to the information and previous employers shouldnt go into the specifics of why someone was sacked.
  • Ashes
    Ashes Posts: 31 Forumite
    FlameCloud wrote: »
    The police can do a report, you would however need a legal reason, as well as the persons permission, which he is highly unlikely to give.

    At the moment you have no legal right to the information and previous employers shouldnt go into the specifics of why someone was sacked.
    Thanks FlameCloud this is the sort of answer I'm looking for,
    I am not looking for the information myself, my sister is, so I'll pass on
    your comment's to her. Ashes
  • FlameCloud
    FlameCloud Posts: 1,952 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Before you get your hopes up, the reasons given are in the data protection act, and I dont think a character assassination is one of them ;)

    Your sister will struggle to find any legitmate source to give you the info you want.
  • Tozer
    Tozer Posts: 3,518 Forumite
    Ashes wrote: »
    An unsavoury character is trying to get custody
    of my sisters Grandson and we know
    he has been sacked for downloading !!!!!! on the Internet
    so we need to find out about this guy.

    If its not too nosey, why is he trying to get custody? Presumably there must be some reason for it.
  • myrnahaz
    myrnahaz Posts: 1,117 Forumite
    Downloading !!!!!! doesn't mean he's a child molester (just pervy) - but there's no reason why you shouldn't ring social services and tell them you're concerned, your sister can do this anonymously.
    Is he really a bad character or just someone you don't like? He might make a good parent.
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