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hi all ..

my finances are in a bit of a 2 & 8 ..

i am approx 27,000 in debt , i am paying min payments on my CC (owe 8 grand) etc etc . my outgoings every month are 1600 , and that is before we eat or clothe the kids . we struggle every month , and so far we have kept our heads above water . but my works are cutting back on the overtime that was very bountiful , and my last couple of wage slips have been a bit to close . my wife is a driving instructor and has her own business , but work is very hit and miss so her income can not really be relied on .

should i carry on just struggling with just making min payments ? my credit rating got hit pretty hard when i sold my house ( long story but i ended up with late payments on my record :mad: ) i would rather try and keep what is left of my credit rating but the kids are growing up ! my oldest is in dire need of new clothes ETC ETC .

what would you do if you were in my shoes ? i would love some advice


thanks all

Scott
22864 quid and counting , but now proud to be dealing with it :j

DMP Starts 5th aug 2009 :j

The motoring forum gets more and more interesting each day.. ;)
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  • falady
    falady Posts: 584 Forumite
    hi Scott,

    Welcome to the forum. you wil find lots of help and advice here.

    My first suggeston is to post a 'Statement of affairs' (SOA). See the sticky note at the top of this forum for what to do. We can then make suggestions on which debts to tackle first, how to get your costs down etc. Also, have a look on the moneysaving old style board - this will really help with getting your food shopping bill down.

    As a quick note - how about charity shops / outlet stores / beg / borrow from friends for the kids clothes?

    Good luck!

    Ali

    PS don't forgrt to include all the interests rates etc on your debts when you post your SOA.
    Not Buying It 2015 :)
  • bank_of_slate
    bank_of_slate Posts: 12,922 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Hi Scott, welcome to the DFW forum (love the avatar)

    Have you contacted CCCS for some professional advice?
    ...Linda xx
    It's easy to give in to that negative voice that chants "cant do it" BUT we lift each other up.
    We dont count all the runners ahead of us & feel intimidated.
    Instead we look back proudly at our journey, our personal struggle & determination & remember that there are those that never even attempt to reach the starting line.
  • NUFCnutter
    NUFCnutter Posts: 408 Forumite
    Hi Scott, the support you will get on here (in the main) is second to none. People can direct you to the right places for all sorts of advice. I know how hard it can be trying to keep kids in clothes, the problem is that they keep growing the little blighters,:rotfl: . The best thing to do, as you have already been advised, is to do an SOA (statement of affairs) so you know exactly how you are doing, and then you can see where you can really cut down on your spending. Best of British!
    LBM £18463.32 in debt 10th June 2008,
    £12470.99 in debt 10th June 2009.
    :j
    Time flies like an arrow.
    Fruit flies like a banana. :D
  • haggisAThome
    haggisAThome Posts: 149 Forumite
    thank you Ali will start filling it in tonight :beer:

    and thanks to you Linda ( lol wife's name :T ) i have not phoned the cccs yet , but it looks like i will be giving them a try . i hope the avitar will not offend all ( i just love the ironry of it )

    thanks as well to you NUF ... yeh kids need there legs takeing off :)

    thanks for takeing the time to look and reply :beer:
    22864 quid and counting , but now proud to be dealing with it :j

    DMP Starts 5th aug 2009 :j

    The motoring forum gets more and more interesting each day.. ;)
  • NUFCnutter
    NUFCnutter Posts: 408 Forumite
    Oy, pass a beer down here :rotfl:
    LBM £18463.32 in debt 10th June 2008,
    £12470.99 in debt 10th June 2009.
    :j
    Time flies like an arrow.
    Fruit flies like a banana. :D
  • Deep_In_Debt
    Deep_In_Debt Posts: 8,579 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Photogenic Mortgage-free Glee!
    Hi Scott
    Welcome to the forum.
    As others have said, post up an SOA. I've seriously save dosh since I've been on DFW. The good peeps on here have helped my cut my bills enormously, so that I can afford to chuck extra money at my debts every month and not go without either.

    As BOS says, contact CCCS, CAB, National Debtline or Payplan for free, impartial advice. They are not out to make money out of you but will give advice in your interests.
    Debt 30k in 2008.:eek::o Cleared all my debt in 2013 and loving being debt free :)
    Mortgage free since 2014 :)
  • MrsTinks
    MrsTinks Posts: 15,238 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker Name Dropper
    To be honest if your rating took a hit when you missed payments on the mortgage then it depends on whether they placed a default or not whether going on a DMP will affect your any more adversely...
    Definitely get up a SOA so we can see if there are places to cut back and prevent the need for a DMP etc :)
    DFW Nerd #025
    DFW no more! Officially debt free 2017 - now joining the MFW's! :)

    My DFW Diary - blah- mildly funny stuff about my journey
  • i do what i can to save cash , i brew my own beer :j , i have given up smoking (one month and counting ):j , and been starting to make bigger meals and making them last instead of binning the leftovers . yes mrstine i was thinking the same , i have no chance of a mortgage now so perhaps a dmp would be the way forward . but how would i stand under scottish law ? (live in the highlands)


    the wife is going to do the SOA wed night so i will post it up when she does it
    22864 quid and counting , but now proud to be dealing with it :j

    DMP Starts 5th aug 2009 :j

    The motoring forum gets more and more interesting each day.. ;)
  • sam89
    sam89 Posts: 267 Forumite
    Hi Scott, DMPs are valid in Scotland. I'm on one and it's the best thing I ever did.

    IVAs and Bankruptcy are not although there are Scottish equivalents with slightly different rules.

    Sam,
    x.
    DMP Mutual Support Member 138
    :D Proud to have dealt with my debts :D
    :beer:DMP completed 1/11/13:beer:
  • Mupeteer
    Mupeteer Posts: 955 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Have you checked your credit file to see what is marked against you? The information could be useful in figuring out where to go from here.
    Reality check - hit rock bottom on 15 Dec 2008 with unsecured debts of £29,136 and not enough money to live on

    :j NOW DEBT FREE!!!! :j
    :oI try to take life one day at a time but sometimes several days attack me at once :o
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