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Divorce and Clean Break Agreement.
Hi Guys, I'm just after some advice.. My wife and I are going through a divorce after nearly 9 years of marriage, she has struggled with Alcoholism throughout the entire marriage and eventually it caused us to not have children, get into lots of debt and argue to the point whereby she went off with someone else and said…
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MSE News: Using Tax-Free Childcare? Little-known rule means top-ups are limited
HM Revenue & Customs is revamping guidance around the new Tax-Free Childcare scheme after MoneySavingExpert.com found it failed to highlight a £500 three-month limit on top-ups to parents... 'Using Tax-Free Childcare? Little-known rule means top-ups are limited to £500 every three months' Click reply below to discuss. If…
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Ex on the mortgage
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Summer Holidays?
My little boy is 4.5 he has Autism, sensory processing disorder, hypermobility the list goes on. He leaves preschool in a couple of weeks and then we have 5 days in a caravan booked. After that it's us 2 for the rest of the summer. He's hard work! Lovely and an amazing wonderful boy but hard work nonetheless! We have had…
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Help with sex offender ex and my children pls
Hello all, Im asking this question on behalf of a friend of mine who is extremely worried, but she cannot afford the legal advice either. However her ex was sent to prison for having sex with a under age girl. He was warned of a few times and still did it. So he is currently in a prison which is dedicated to sex offenders.…
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Do you get fined if your child isnt yet statutory school age
This isn't happening until 2018 but just wondering if anyone knows the answer. Our son will be 4 in May 2018, so will be starting Reception in September 2018. In December 18 we are planning on going to Australia for 3 weeks. 2 of the weeks will be Christmas holidays so he will miss 4 or 5 days of school. The way I…
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Divorce and the house
My partner has been divorced for 2 years and her ex lives in the family home, the house is up for sale but only 3 people have been to view and he showed them round !!! What happens if the house does not sell, all our money is tied up in the house , we are renting until it gets sold.
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Help with land registry notice
Hi, can anyone HELP please My partner and I lived together as Man and Wife for 28 years and back in 1996 we decided to buy our own home after 9 years renting with a Housing Association(Have a copy of Tenancy agreement). So I applied for a mortgage this was refused due to a ccj from Northwest water in my name only as I was…
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Contacting an old friend
Like many people do but might not admit to, I sometimes google old friends, work colleagues, school friends etc! Just out of interest to see how they turned out, where life took them etc. Anyway today I googled someone who was my best friend from age 11 to 23 when we fell out and haven't spoken since. That was 14 years…
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I've told my son to leave. I feel awful.
Hi Guys Thank you for reading. My son is 21. The last few years have been difficult, not majorly perhaps. No police involvement, no physical violence. I love my son dearly, but it seems fairly obvious he does not love me. He has borrowed money without asking, helps himself to things that aren't his, breaks them, takes them…
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Equity of house and debts
Hopefully this is the right board to p;lace this question. I have a house in my sole name and have accumulated after the separation around 55k in debts. My ex has 20k I bought the house in my sole name 6 years ago, which has cost me around 120k As we are now going through the finacial divorce proceeding, how is the equity…
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Please Help Wedding Cancellation
Hi guys, bit of a long winded one but here goes. Around 6 months ago me and my partner booked our wedding date for April 2019. It was a £250 to "save the date" and they required the payments staggered over the 2 years to complete the cost. We were told that another £500 was due in 5 days so as we had no intention of losing…
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A New Surname after marriage
Hello all, I am really looking to canvas advice on changing my name. I recently got married to the lady of my dreams, and now we have the dreaded logistical nightmare of changing surnames. I am not a traditionalist, and we think it would be very nice to start a new tradition and merge our surnames together to make a brand…
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Free childcare entitlement - worried
When my eldest reached 3 years old we were entitled to 15 hrs free childcare per week and a portion of our usual monthly bill was deducted to allow for this. At the time DH was working full time and I was working part time (22.5 hrs a week). When we had our second child a couple of years ago I had to give up work…
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Notice of marraige
so I understand before having a civil ceremony you have to pay and have an appointment with the registrar to register the notice of marraige which must be given at least 28 days before marraige. So my question is: 1- do both people have to be present at this notice meeting? 2- can I book the ceremony now at the registry…
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Wife stopped paying, won't go..?
So my wife has decided she does not want to be with me after 15 years of marriage. I earn significantly more than her and as of Aug'16 she stopped contributing to the household bills. The house costs circa £4.5k/month to run and she is living here with our two children (10 and 19) rent free. I have offered to give her…
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Ex-boyfriend wants me to pay back rent
Posting here for the first time in the hope that someone can offer advice. I have recently split up with my boyfriend. We were living together in a flat that he owns. When I moved in, we agreed (verbally, nothing written down) that instead of contributing to the mortgage repayments, I would put the money I had been paying…
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Would a female feel vulnerable if alone ans stranded?
So you're a female driver and your car breaks down. You're left alone and stranded by the roadside waiting for the AA man who takes hours and hours to turn up. Do you think you should feel more vulnerable than a man? I deliberately haven't posted this in the motoring forum because it's male dominated sometimes by…
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At what age should teen grandsons pocket money be stopped?
My two teen grandsons are 14 and 17. I love giving them their pocket money which I give every few months so it's a bigger amount for them, about £250 each time. They are the most lovely well mannered boys you could hope for and I love them to bits. The older boy will be 18 soon and will be going to university. O/H says his…
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Marriage, Divorce and Inheritance
So, I need some advice, Martin would be rolling his eyes at me, as I am aware you will be too. So I split up with my husband January 2016. August 2016 my father died, I spent the 8 days in hospital watching him die, my husband moved back into the family home to care for our children, 7 and 11 at the time. When my dad had…
