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The trials & tribulations of a 1st time landlord & investor

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  • TallGirl
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    edited 6 January 2017 at 9:54AM
    Called pension people decision today then letter and form to claim if they deem I should have it. I am certain they will.

    M&s bank all set up on one phone call just need to wait for pin and once switched call them to set up new 5% savings account. Really easy and great benefits I can highly recommend it.

    Called to cancel my 123 credit card not worth it now they are changing the % max for travel cost will break even and can live without it.

    Speedy day as bought new rattan furniture table, two chars and two footstools. Mainly because my cube of four had two chairs stolen and iI really annoys me I wanted it compete again. £150 so quite good and I like the footstools and small table better than buying a new four and I haven't found anywhere that sells just the chairs.

    Went to see kinky boots £20 tickets with matercard brilliant show £35 on drinks but cheap night out for central London really. Back to work tomorrow only one day then off Friday. Not sure what am doing quite possible cleaning this place it's quite dirty.

    Night night all time for bed for me early start tomorrow.
    Save £12k in 25 No 49
    PB Win 21 £225, 22 £275, 23 £900, 24 £750 Balance Dec 25 £32.7K  
    Plan to move to Denmark for FIRE by Autumn 2025 “May your decisions reflect your hopes not your fears”
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  • TallGirl
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    Still in bed well it's my Friday off. Furniture being delivered in a bit just perfect as I'm here. Can't wait to have a complete set again.

    DG woke up early and made us omelettes to eat in bed very nice treat she hates cooking and early mornings.

    Plans for today is sort onions out in fridge chop them basically really for bulk cottage pie cooking tomorrow. DG needs to apply for a couple of jobs an agency rang her yesterday about a job in Southampton not ideal yet but they also have an office in Holborn so could be perfect as she could change offices when we move back down south in a couple of years or so. Should be more money too and out of legal aid. She's just not the most confident person but let's see.

    I also need to do a bit of cleaning and we have first PT session tonight. Might go down to TKMax my sister didn't quite like the top I bought her so need to find another one. Can't go until delivery is here but that's fine.

    Work was manic yesterday stats still outstanding and a key person is leaving at council so needed to meet her ended up with three meetings. Up exhausted when I got in.

    Plumber should be going to house today let's hope it's fixable or maybe just bite the bullet and get pump replaced we shall see. Anyway back to read some diaries and also need to email ex bil to ask for account details for funeral bill. He never rang at Christmas but I did get email.
    Save £12k in 25 No 49
    PB Win 21 £225, 22 £275, 23 £900, 24 £750 Balance Dec 25 £32.7K  
    Plan to move to Denmark for FIRE by Autumn 2025 “May your decisions reflect your hopes not your fears”
    New diary aiming for fire https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6414795/mortgage-free-now-aiming-for-fire#latest

  • TallGirl
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    Didn't do a lot yesterday some naughty slot playing so stopped my accounts and won't be doing it again waste of money and I know I cannot stop.

    Still need yo build the table and one chair for the new garden furniture but it matches really well so I'm pleased with it.

    Done the cleaning just now and shortened the sleeves on our new dressing gowns earlier. DG had too much to drink yesterday and fell asleep around four am. She's still jet lagged but I'm a bit fed up as she's still snoring away so cooked myself lunch and she's missed out.

    Will tackle the onions in a minute and then need to sort out new MS banking to transfer some money over as tenants have paid rent. Plan is to move £700 a month so there's enough for tax and repairs in Halifax and ms will have the savings plus it will transfer to new linked account.

    Still nothing from second pension hopefully next week now.

    Just spoken to my mum on video what's app really nice I had discovered a new series about firemen on Danish TV that starred my youngest cousin. Sent her the link she had seen it either. Also on what's app to my sister managed to buy her two tops so that's her birthday present sorted as well.

    Think that's it need to get banking stuff done first Onion doesn't really appeal and I doubt DG will be up for the shops for a while.
    Save £12k in 25 No 49
    PB Win 21 £225, 22 £275, 23 £900, 24 £750 Balance Dec 25 £32.7K  
    Plan to move to Denmark for FIRE by Autumn 2025 “May your decisions reflect your hopes not your fears”
    New diary aiming for fire https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6414795/mortgage-free-now-aiming-for-fire#latest

  • Hi Tall Girl I have followed your diaries for a long time and I am sorry about your loss.

    What does strike me as a little worrying after all you've been through and put up with because of alcohol you now seem to be in a relationship again with someone who has unhealthy drinking habits that sometimes cause issues. I am referring to other incidents you have also posted about.

    I hope you're ok and looking after you and not focussing on someone else who might need 'help' from you rather than them helping themselves.
  • TallGirl
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    Keeping motivated thank you so much for popping in I totally agree with you about me looking after someone else with drink problems hat thought very much hit me as well today. I am quite cross with her and she knows she struggles with her off button once she starts although she only ever has more than one on a Friday and we don't tend to drink during the week.

    I don't want to police her but I've also said I don't want to put up with her behaviour and sleeping all day Saturday. She is aware and realises it is a problem. We are both going dry January until 4/2 i want to loose weight and then we shall see. I think we will be ok as I recognise the signs in myself and I won't fall into the denial trap and making excuses for someone. I will say she never does it when we are out or with other people but still a concern and I certainly don't want to drink over the top myself.

    I really appreciate the reply thanks for pointing it out.
    Save £12k in 25 No 49
    PB Win 21 £225, 22 £275, 23 £900, 24 £750 Balance Dec 25 £32.7K  
    Plan to move to Denmark for FIRE by Autumn 2025 “May your decisions reflect your hopes not your fears”
    New diary aiming for fire https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6414795/mortgage-free-now-aiming-for-fire#latest

  • TallGirl
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    Morning much taking and quiet weekend since Saturday. Girlfriend is still really sorry but it turns out she also took a Nytol and that's why she ended up in such a bad state. It's no excuse but her sleeping patterns are so bad she was awake again at 5am and believe me that's not normal. She's worked out I write a blog and is a bit concerned about this but I won't let her read it obviously and she's respected that I want to continue. I can kind of understand it's not nice having someone write about you even if it is annomumoys. Bet there are lots of mses on here yet who don't tell their other half about their diary. I do love her very much but she doesn't know about my gambling issues of the past and I'm not ready to tell her. I'm going to cancel the recently signed up to site and stop again much better that way.

    Finally second pension is paying out need to fill in form and send bank statement which I have ordered. Told IFA he needs my wages and how much pensions contributions where made in my name over the last four years. I should have that no issue but I don't always keep paperwork. Bad I know.

    I told him I had bought premium bonds he said that was something he would have suggested so I'm pleased with that.

    Oh and my gym has cancelled more classes so will look to change to EasyGym in Feb when contract ends saving £40 a month each. A lot of money.

    Right off to work soon no tube strike only Southern so can't be as bad today. Fingers crossed.
    Save £12k in 25 No 49
    PB Win 21 £225, 22 £275, 23 £900, 24 £750 Balance Dec 25 £32.7K  
    Plan to move to Denmark for FIRE by Autumn 2025 “May your decisions reflect your hopes not your fears”
    New diary aiming for fire https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6414795/mortgage-free-now-aiming-for-fire#latest

  • TallGirl
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    edited 11 January 2017 at 8:50AM
    Not too bad a journey yesterday to work just really busy and you end up like sardines in the bus and train. I believe I used to moan about traffic sitting in a nice car was at least preferable I would say some days.

    DG is gone by bus and tram this morning new route fingers crossed it works or she'll be late in court.

    Got claim form for second pension they will use paying in slip instead of bank statement but I think I might wait for bank statement seems safer.

    Pump at house will only be £200+ vat to replace so that's good will get taken out of next months rent. Hopefully that will be it but I knew it needed doing so quite happy with that. It's also so noisy and too powerful.

    On Friday I must to the following:

    - Get pension details for IFA
    - Tell friend end date for pet insurance
    - send off pension claim form if not done before
    - transfer money into new m&s account
    - call up to set up savings account 15/1
    - book laser eye treatment examination

    I think that covers it might have to add more just nice to remember it by writing it in here.

    I have decided only to write in my diary when DG is not around really don't want her to get paranoid and I'm not sure I would enjoy someone writing about me.

    Emailed ex bil asking how much I owe for the funeral would be great to get that paid so I can see what's left to invest. IFA has asked for last four years pension contributions so that should be a fair whack to put into them but there will be some left and obviously new tax year means new ISA. My UK tracker is doing really well so tempted to stick the rest of my allowance in now but might as well wait for IFA recommendation.

    Right should really get out of bed and get into work early but so cold and work is really hectic and so many balls up in the air. I'm really starting to feel how this job is the next step up so much responsibility but I'm learning from it and I can see myself getting better..
    Save £12k in 25 No 49
    PB Win 21 £225, 22 £275, 23 £900, 24 £750 Balance Dec 25 £32.7K  
    Plan to move to Denmark for FIRE by Autumn 2025 “May your decisions reflect your hopes not your fears”
    New diary aiming for fire https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6414795/mortgage-free-now-aiming-for-fire#latest

  • TallGirl
    TallGirl Posts: 6,154 Forumite
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    edited 13 January 2017 at 1:40PM
    TallGirl wrote: »
    On Friday I must to the following:

    - Get pension details for IFA
    - Tell friend end date for pet insurance
    - send off pension claim form if not done before
    - transfer money into new m&s account
    - call up to set up savings account 15/1
    - book laser eye treatment examination.

    Here we go it's Friday thank goodness. DG is working from home due to train strike so I'm in the bedroom working on my list.

    Done pension details for IFA didn't have accurate for one salery really must keep everything in future.
    Filled in pension claim but cannot send off as no bankstatement yet.
    M&S account all done and New savings account opened so all happy days.

    Not sure I can do laser surgery app yet without works diary so might have to wait will do pet insurance thingy in a minute but not bad progress.

    Ex bil has not been in touch re bil will email fil now he is back in the country he might be able to chase him.

    Still to do:
    Book eye laser surgery
    Pay final payment on 123 credit card so account can close
    Call up to open new FD account 15/2
    Find home for prev FD saver

    Still no booze and gym tonight plus Sunday. Diet so so with sweets etc but not really bad carbs.

    Hope everyone is ok and coping with the weather just wet sleet here.
    Save £12k in 25 No 49
    PB Win 21 £225, 22 £275, 23 £900, 24 £750 Balance Dec 25 £32.7K  
    Plan to move to Denmark for FIRE by Autumn 2025 “May your decisions reflect your hopes not your fears”
    New diary aiming for fire https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6414795/mortgage-free-now-aiming-for-fire#latest

  • TallGirl
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    Forgot to add to the list book holiday to Gambia - doing going md March cannot wait. £1400 seaview suite and other extra on the flight life leg room but worth it got £72 cash back with Quidco that was a nice one and DG reminded me before we booked well nice. :j :rotfl: :T

    Been to the gym, had a sauna and steam before going home to cook dinner steak and parsnip chips. Yoghurt for desert. Then off to driving range £8 for a bucket of balls after 9pm and only spend was £6 on hot chocolate. No drinking very happy.

    Also build my garden furniture earlier and did two wash loads much more productive than last week. Very happy.
    Save £12k in 25 No 49
    PB Win 21 £225, 22 £275, 23 £900, 24 £750 Balance Dec 25 £32.7K  
    Plan to move to Denmark for FIRE by Autumn 2025 “May your decisions reflect your hopes not your fears”
    New diary aiming for fire https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6414795/mortgage-free-now-aiming-for-fire#latest

  • TallGirl
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    edited 15 January 2017 at 10:49PM
    Free gym pass used today to check out EasyGym really nice so cancelled expensive gym and will start new one 25/2 should be good and £40 saved between us.

    Did go for naughty pizza afterwards but it's free refill soft drinks and two pizza plus a side for £15 which is ace for London and it's all freshly made to your specifications.

    Also ordered a load of golf gear £75 worth half for DG but this is as a treat but no more after that. Opened joint saving account so gym savings can go towards future holidays and my premium bond wins will sos be added here. I'll open a Santander 3% saving account it's £200 a month but needs to be done by phone or in branch. Pain really but worth it. Also need to book lease check and find out when I can have my pre laser checkup for my eyes. Really want it done.


    My M&S savings account is opened with £250 in it my First Direct one matures next month need a home for that plus open a new one in March. Paid off my 123 credit card now closed sadly not worth it due to new rule limiting cash back on train fares. Cut up and also cut up Halifax got a more manageable amount of accounts now well at least not increased with M&S.

    My car insurance is also due and MOT but money in joint account doe this. Hoping to get car insurance via Meercats to get two for one cinema tickets would be a nice thing to do together.

    Booked for malaria travel clinic so that's done. Going to meet my friend from back down South in Covent Garden after work. Look forward to seeing her again been ages even if it means staying late at work. Only drinking soft drink no alcohol for me.

    Been a good weekend done loads more than normal and had productive Friday too.
    Save £12k in 25 No 49
    PB Win 21 £225, 22 £275, 23 £900, 24 £750 Balance Dec 25 £32.7K  
    Plan to move to Denmark for FIRE by Autumn 2025 “May your decisions reflect your hopes not your fears”
    New diary aiming for fire https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6414795/mortgage-free-now-aiming-for-fire#latest

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