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How Lovely!!! What a perfect addition to the new home xxMF planning for the simple life :beer::j0
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How exciting! Details please!Mortgage free 16/06/2023! £132,500 cleared in 11 years, 3 months and 7 days
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I have been getting used to having a dog It may take some time
He is a Border Collie type from a rescue centre who has had to cope with a lot of changes in homes and circumstances. This has made him very anxious and I have had to learn quickly how to work with him so I don't exasperate the situation.
Pros -
He:- doesn't know any commands but is clever and a fast learner
- seems gentle and keen to please
- sleeps through the night without a sound and stays clean
- is not a barker
- loves his walks
- is giving me some structure and discipline in the day so I am up and about and productive much earlier
- is making me more active and getting me out of the house at least twice a day
- loves treats
Cons -
He- had some house training issues the day we brought him home and further accidents one afternoon which I think were anxiety related.
- he paces around the kitchen island when he gets anxious and he can keep this up for ages
- he is scared of new people
- he likes chemical smells - fuel, fire lighters, weed killer. Obviously could be dangerous for him so I'm already training him to ignore
- is showing an interest in the cows and sheep next door :eek:
- it's not possible to train him or get him to respond when he is anxious
- stinks and we can't bath him yet because of the anxiety
- is shedding quite badly at the moment which could be stress or a normal autumn moult
- isn't interested in toys
It's probable that he started life as a farm dog. He is much happier outside and becomes anxious in the house. However if we tether him in the house he immediately calms down and relaxes. It may be that he has spent quite a lot of time chained up previously.
He has made huge steps already. As I type he is not tethered and sleeping on a blanket in the living room with me. So we are getting there. My main concern is his interest in the livestock and I've been trying to research the right training technique for this without much success. Everything online usually says - yes it can be done but we're not going to tell you how to do it unless you pay us :eek: Anyone advice from dog owners/trainers on that would be very appreciated.
I know it isn't a great MS move getting a dog at this stage - there are unlikely to be any savings or OPs this month. However, Mr F has waited so long to have a dog again and I think he'll be good for me too. There are going to be some costs getting us both settled. My needs have already extended to a second Dy$0n Fluffy - ridiculous I know but he's so smelly right now and I don't want to transfer the smell upstairs. I realise this is borderline OCD but I feel much more relaxed about things as a result.
It's going to fine... isn't it?
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Hi Fortune
I love your Pros list! It reads like the requirements of an ideal man! :rotfl:
Bexster0 -
Of course it will be fine! You've only had him a few days, and he's changed already. The catsitting I was doing - they were rescue cats, two years ago, and they're *still* changing. As for not being MSE - it was a considered move between you and your OH, life isn't only about paying things off.
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Wow! Fab news - great you have taken a rescue woofer!
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Lovely. I think its great, collies are super intelligent..I am sure he will come on in leaps and bounds (that wasn't an intentional pun, but then thinking on it - you can do dog agility training with him to boot!! :rotfl:)
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He'll be fine! It will just take time and patience! If you have room and don't have one already I would suggest a crate Mine have one with lots of bedding in and a blanket over the top so it's a nice cosy den where they can go and be on their own if they get anxious or just want to be left alone. It might help him to have one when visitors come round and he can come out of it when he feels comfortable.
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Congrats on the new addition, what a lovely home you are giving him.0
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Hi Fortune
Have read your diary - this one, not the others - yet and i'm taking inspiration from the delicious sounding meals you make and am hoping to be a bit more adventurous with meals and plan them better too - thank you
Fantastic news that you've got a dog, and a rescue one too :T Echo-ing others here that you will be giving him a wonderful home :T
It will be more than fine, it sounds like he may have had a few changes in his life and may need a bit of time to realise this is his forever home now and that he is a part of the family and is loved. We've got rescue cats so no suggestions I'm sorry although others have posted some good advice. When we got ours we had a few accidents - one refused to use the litter tray and ruined a rug, a couple of things got broken as they got used to their new surroundings. I couldn't tell them off as i'm sure they had no bad intentions :rotfl: It wasn't very MSE of us to get them either and i must admit to spoiling them a bit by getting their favourite food and cooking them some chicken on occasion
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