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lilmissmup - the 2010 chapter!

So yes technically we have about 36 hours until 2010 but I didn't want to be part of the big server crash on the 1st when everyone starts new diaries!

I am Dawn, 25 and single mother to two fur babies! :p

I have been a MSE member for nearly 3 years, in that time I lot has happened, I became debt free in 2008 but last year was a bad year, I became single in July for first time in 6.5 years after ex decided he didn't want any more commitment and upped and left!!!

I had been living with my boyfriend for over 5 of those years so when we split I had to move house too.

I am now back living at home with my Dad because I wasn't do well emotionally or financially living alone due to lots of issues with ex (which most of my loyal lovelies know all about so not putting in my new shiney diary!).

I am also currently on anti depressants due to it all and due to start seeing a councellor in Feb for some extra help.

But I am determined 2010 will be a better year, not expecting it to be amazing but hopefully it will be better than 2009 as also had two deaths, one family member (my nan) and a close next door neighbour dying of cancer in his 50s which upset me loads too.

Roll on 2010!!!!! :T:T:T:T:T
Now a SAHM trying to earn some spare pennies each month
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  • jenjade
    jenjade Posts: 8,418 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    yeah Go Dawn i am feeling more upbeat today to just need to make some possitive moves i think!!

    Here's to an amazing 2010!!!
    :j Proud mum to Jade age 10 years and Baby Ellie born Christmas Day:eek: with a broke heart :( Proven to be a little fighter and battling on with her heart condition :j
  • wendz86
    wendz86 Posts: 7,172 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    Woo lets hope 2010 is a great year for you!
  • ehallett
    ehallett Posts: 1,960 Forumite
    Hi

    Just wanted to pop in and say I hope you have a really great 2010.

    I will be subscribing to your diary :D

    Emily x
  • mariagti
    mariagti Posts: 3,207 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Happy new diary!

    Hope 2010 will be a happy year for you.

    xx
    Make £5 a day JAN £121/175 FEB £283/175:j
    Weekly Grocery budget of £35! Jan £95.05/175 Feb £37.53/175
  • keza
    keza Posts: 1,311 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Photogenic Combo Breaker
    *subscribed* good luck for 2010. i will pop in for extra encouragement and support :D xx
    Current Mortgage balance - £363,785.35/£420,000 (highest point Oct 2022).
  • Swinstie73
    Swinstie73 Posts: 2,897 Forumite
    Subscribed too, think that's me at 35 diaries, help!
  • Fire_Fox
    Fire_Fox Posts: 26,026 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    Another subscriber!
    Declutterbug-in-progress.⭐️⭐️⭐️ ⭐️⭐️
  • moneymabel
    moneymabel Posts: 7,910 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Happy new diary Dawn- here's to a great 2010 :-)
  • Shoe_Gal
    Shoe_Gal Posts: 7,235 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Hi Dawn - happy new diary :D

    2010 will be a F Fabulous year for all of us :j
    Sometimes it's hard to walk in a single woman's shoes - that's why we need really special ones!
    Total debt @ Oct 2008: £29,226.42 Credit Card- £[STRIKE]7493.56[/STRIKE] - £7243.56
    Weightloss : 0/34lbs
  • Odette
    Odette Posts: 716 Forumite
    I hope you have a better 2010 Dawn, as my teacher used to say in year 5, once you hit rock bottom, the only way is up!
    Aim - BUYING A HOUSE :eek: by November 2013!
    Saved = 100% on 03/07/12 :j
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