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  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    I just typed out a whole long post but changed my mind about posting it.

    Why is life so difficult sometimes? Everything is a struggle.
    You have got me all curious now:D
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    shazrobo wrote: »
    thank god its the last day of the school hols, feeling really down and am struggling at the mo. feeling that life is so unfair, i just want to get well, but then school hols come along and all the added stress, of caring for 2 special needs kids, with no help or respite.
    just want to lie down and recharge my batteries.
    also feeling guilty cos i keep telling kids how much better life can be wen they are at school, especially daniel, as he is at a resedential school, and i am so looking forward to him going back, god i sound awful dont i
    Hi

    Don't feel bad. Kids are hard work and you need a break.
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • alba37
    alba37 Posts: 2,616 Forumite
    CCStar wrote: »
    Nice new year - hopefully it will be less eventful than 2008, some events were good but some were tiring.

    We need to concentrate on getting money now!

    Happy New Year guys:)

    Happy New Year CCStar, let's hope 2009 is a better one! :D
  • Horasio
    Horasio Posts: 6,676 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Ive just found this thread and I would like to join please.

    Im Sarah and have been suffering with depression since I had my son who is coming up for 7yrs and it was a REALLY bleak time and finally broke down when he was 6months and started medication and have been on them ever since, took a break to have my DD but went start on them soon after.

    Ive had councilling and found it usefull but IVE decided to BITE THE BULLET like and try and deal with my OWN problems head on and not be on medication for the rest of my life.

    Ive been having good days and bad days but I trying to work out WHY I feel like this and is there anything I can do to change it.

    I know there is herbal tablets out there and I may look into them at some point but I really want to beat this nasty thing that has STOLEN the best part of my sons baby days away and I wont get them back.

    I want to offer you all my support and love to you all.

    Sarah xxx

    Hi and welcome:)
    An average day in my life:hello: :eek::mad: :coffee::coffee::coffee::T :o :rotfl: :rotfl: :p :eek::mad: :beer:
    I am no expert in property but have lived in many types of homes, in many locations and can only talk from experience.
  • BizzyBek
    BizzyBek Posts: 265 Forumite
    Morning all.

    Well I am back to work but being freelance/self employed and working from from home it's not much of a journey :rotfl:

    Looking forward to some of my new projects I'm working with this year - v.exciting and I may even get to go to the far east with work for a long weekend which would be an adventure. Not bad for a girl who once spent months indoors :j

    In the here and now my sinuses are still yukkie - I won't give you the gory details at this time of the morning :p
  • Sssssss
    Sssssss Posts: 1,094 Forumite
    I feel a complete waste of space today. After two weeks of being with my wife and son, they've gone back to school / work today and I feel so alone.

    After dropping son at school I came home and crawled back into bed, there are so many things I should be doing but really don't see the point.
  • shazrobo
    shazrobo Posts: 3,313 Forumite
    hi all, i woke very early today, so excited waving the kids off this morning :j , the happy feeling didnt last too long tho, as i had counselling, and the first thing she asked was, how had i been over the school hols, and i just broke down in tears, at the end of the session, she asked me if there was any point having any sessions, as there is nothing she can do.

    after that i met my support worker in town for a coffee and a chat, back home now feeling tired, and am going out tonight, not really in mood, but i know ian will cheer me up, and make me smile, so i will go out, and at least i dont have to cook tonight.

    hi Sssssss, (((hugs))), it takes some getting used to the emptiness after having a house full over the school hols, take care of yourself, and if it helps try to get out just for a short while for a bit of fresh air, usually makes me feel bit more positive

    hugs all
    shaz xxx
    enjoy life, we only get one chance at it:)
  • Sssssss
    Sssssss Posts: 1,094 Forumite
    shazrobo wrote: »
    hi Sssssss, (((hugs))), it takes some getting used to the emptiness after having a house full over the school hols, take care of yourself, and if it helps try to get out just for a short while for a bit of fresh air, usually makes me feel bit more positive

    hugs all
    shaz xxx

    thanks shaz, will do, if anything the cold weather will wake me up.
  • To Sssss and Shazrobo

    You both achieved something today - you got yourselves up, dressed and did what you had to do. Well done! give yourselves some credit and a pat on the back.

    I only got up 2 hrs ago, am still in yesterday's clothes (which were already yesterday's clothes) and although there's loads of stuff I should be doing (like phoning work to say I won't be in this week) I just can't be bothered.

    When you're low, everything is so much harder and people don't realise just how much effort, determination and energy it takes to function reasonably normally. Having made an effort this morning, its perfectly understandable that you're both feeling drained now.

    Shazrobo - enjoy the calm and treat yourself to some "me" time - it sounds like you deserve it

    Sssss - enjoy the anticipation of spending time with your wife and son this evening, and enjoy that time with them later

    Take care of yourselves xx
    The independent woman's checklist for success :
    1. Look like a lady, 2. Act like a man, 3. Work like a dog
    Life instructions : 1. Breathe in, 2. Breathe out, 3. Repeat ad infinitum
    [strike]2008 - £4k challenge member 063[/strike] gave up halfway thru, not sure I even earned that much, so probably achieved it :confused:
  • Sssssss
    Sssssss Posts: 1,094 Forumite
    To Sssss and Shazrobo

    You both achieved something today - you got yourselves up, dressed and did what you had to do. Well done! give yourselves some credit and a pat on the back.

    I only got up 2 hrs ago, am still in yesterday's clothes (which were already yesterday's clothes) and although there's loads of stuff I should be doing (like phoning work to say I won't be in this week) I just can't be bothered.

    When you're low, everything is so much harder and people don't realise just how much effort, determination and energy it takes to function reasonably normally. Having made an effort this morning, its perfectly understandable that you're both feeling drained now.

    Shazrobo - enjoy the calm and treat yourself to some "me" time - it sounds like you deserve it

    Sssss - enjoy the anticipation of spending time with your wife and son this evening, and enjoy that time with them later

    Take care of yourselves xx

    thank you so much for your well reasoned words, the walk to school to pick up DS did me the world of good.

    I really understand how even phoning work can be really really hard, I used to spend hours looking at the phone when I had to make a call or would just sit in the car for ages if I had to go somewhere and finally give up.

    I'm sending over to you some of the strenght I have this afternoon in the hope it also will help you maybe just get showered and dressed.

    here it comes
    >>>>>>>

    got it ;)
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