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We looked at a house on the market priced at £260,000. We offered £255,000 the offer was rejected immediately as the sellers wanted the asking price. We were told that there were a number of interested parties and we should consider increasing.
We know there is a lot of work required on the house and to be honest that is what appealed to us.
We left it for a week and the estate agent called to say that the seller had asked to see our agreement in principle and were ready to consider our offer. We duly provided it.
It's now been two weeks and despite daily contact with the estate agent and no other offers, our offer hasn't been accepted or declined I am also told that ours has been the only offer.
Each time I am told the family is considering.
The house is being sold via probate. There are two estate agents involved. I feel we are being played with and I really don't know how to proceed.
Any advice would be appreciated.
We know there is a lot of work required on the house and to be honest that is what appealed to us.
We left it for a week and the estate agent called to say that the seller had asked to see our agreement in principle and were ready to consider our offer. We duly provided it.
It's now been two weeks and despite daily contact with the estate agent and no other offers, our offer hasn't been accepted or declined I am also told that ours has been the only offer.
Each time I am told the family is considering.
The house is being sold via probate. There are two estate agents involved. I feel we are being played with and I really don't know how to proceed.
Any advice would be appreciated.
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Perhaps the best thing to do is keep looking at other properties.
If you find another one that you might want to offer on, you can check back with the EA to find out if there's any progress on this one.
If there isn't, go ahead with an offer on the other property.0 -
Is it worth me saying if I don't get an answer within the next couple of days then I wish to withdraw my offer? Or is that just shooting myself in the foot?
I was surprised that they came back to me and asked for my financial details and then nothing further. If they did come back maybe we could meet in the middle but to keep saying they are considering is getting us nowhere.0 -
You could always say to the EA you've found an other suitable property so would like a response in the next few days or you'll be proceeding with the other property
Your offer seems to be there for competition at the moment, any viewings will be told of your offer therefore they are hoping for someone to go higher than what's down0 -
Probate can take many months. Often nothing like a regular sale where the occupiers want to move on. More like a complicated relationship break up.
Executor(s) have a legal obligation to the beneficiary(s) to get the best price NOT to wind things up quickly. You may have been asked for paperwork so they can verify it is a genuine offer not a sham or unrealistic.
Executor(s) can disagree or be inexperienced or useless. Beneficiary(s) can disagree or be difficult to contact or greedy or ..... Estate agent likely has no say can only pass messages on. They cannot reveal information about the executor(s) or beneficiary(s).
Leave it as it is, look at other properties and offer if you fall in love. Withdrawing might suggest you are not a serious buyer just chancing your arm to anyone who wants to see it that way.Declutterbug-in-progress.⭐️⭐️⭐️ ⭐️⭐️0 -
Daily contact makes you look desperate.
We bought a probate property last year and had long delays in response to our offers. Eventually we contacted them to say we had made what we considered a serious offer, we were disappointed at the lack of response and we were about to arrange more viewings that weekend. We had a response saying our offer would be accepted with a modest increase, which we agreed.0 -
"being sold through probate" is unclear. Not blaming you, that may be what you were told, but you need to know the exact status.
If its still in the process of probate, that could take months so they might be thinking, no rush lets see if anyone else comes along.
If its gone through probate, eg probate is completed, then that really becomes an irrelevance, its being sold by someone in the same way as any other house. The executors can say yes or no immediately (if they want).
Here's the final complication, its not at all unknown for executors to argue about price among themselves. Worst case there might be several with one person holding out for a bigger price.
And, if there's a solicitor involved having done the probate and now the sale, they will communicate with the beneficiaries at their normal solicitors pace.
So, i suggest you first start by determining has it gone through probate and are the executors solicitors, or the beneficiaries directly.
That can then guide you. If probate hasn't completed then i strongly suggest you start looking elsewhere.
If it has, and its solicitors, be patient a while longer.
If it has and its the beneficiaries selling direct, then a friendly comment that you'll have to withdraw soon may help those beneficiaries who wish to sell arguing against one hanging on for a higher bidder, should that be the case.0 -
What do you gain by withdrawing your offer? Absolutely nothing. Keep this on the back burner for a bit whilst you look for alternatives. If you find something you profer, then make a decision about this one.Make £2025 in 2025
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Daily contact makes you look desperate.
We bought a probate property last year and had long delays in response to our offers. Eventually we contacted them to say we had made what we considered a serious offer, we were disappointed at the lack of response and we were about to arrange more viewings that weekend. We had a response saying our offer would be accepted with a modest increase, which we agreed.
It's the estate agent who contacts me daily. I think because there are two estate agents involved, one has an interested party :me and they are keen for the sale.
I did contact and said we had made a serious offer and I am told it's being considered. So I can't even go any further.0 -
I did contact and said we had made a serious offer and I am told it's being considered. So I can't even go any further.
Nothing more you can do. As others have said, keep viewing other properties and if there's one you like, offer on that instead. Don't withdraw the offer - it won't achieve anything. Leave it in play until you find something better.0 -
If you are having issues getting answers to your offer on a probate property,believe me you'll likely face a whole host of other time issues as the property progresses if your offer is accepted.
I got 3 months into buying a probate property 2 years ago and barely got anywhere before deciding that whilst the executors clearly needed to sell,they were selling on behalf of beneficiaries that couldn't agree on anything.
Sometimes the problem with a probate/estate sale is there is no hurry...usually no onward up chain and those benefitting from the funds see it as a windfall so perhaps want to wait for the best and highest offer to maximise their cut.
This is particularly evident when its "more distant" relatives who perhaps have not set foot in the property for years. If you get any further expect things like the property information form to be nigh on useless as every question is likely to be ticked "not known". (apologies if I offend anyone,but that's been my experience of buying a probate house. I appreciate lots will have a different view)
Keep the offer on the table for as long as you feel comfortable however I would stress to the agent that as no firm commitment has been received you will continue to view other suitable property.in S 38 T 2 F 50
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