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  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    This is what's going on with pickles

    http://www.catster.com/lifestyle/7-symptoms-feline-spring-fever-cat-behavior

    Laurs as well probably (though I may kill him)
  • tesuhoha
    tesuhoha Posts: 17,971 Forumite
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    My Bengal cat Cyd comes tearing into the room at superspeed. I have never seen her run so fast. She jumps up at the window, jumps straight down again and runs out of the room at superspeed. She keeps running round the house howling ow wow wow. My other cat is spending all her waking hours on the windowsill chirping away at the birds. She asks me 5 times a day to let her out. I open the door, she sniffs the air, decides its too cold and walks away.
    The forest would be very silent if no birds sang except for the birds that sang the best






  • tunathe_cat
    tunathe_cat Posts: 462 Forumite
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    Hi Mel
    miss the furby photos
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    I need to sort out a new 3rd party host
    Stupid photo bucket.

    How's you A?
    better update

    So
    OH ruptured his oesophagus on 28th April
    Mortality rate is extreme. Basically if its not operated on within 12 hours you have a less than 50% change of survival even with medical intervention.

    He was in Intensive Care for 31 days
    Lots of muscle wastage
    Currently dealing with the madness from dying (I knew of twice and was actually there for one) he died a couple of times during surgery as well have since found out.
    ITU also sends people mad, the belief you are being held hostage is common well worth reading up on is fascinating.

    His mental health made stuff more difficult mainly because the medica professionals didn't start hearing me until his death I was present for.

    He was booted out 3 weeks ago
    Open wounds
    Limited mobility
    No care plan
    Just me.
  • Pollycat
    Pollycat Posts: 34,688 Forumite
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    Hi Melly
    Lovely to hear from you, I do think about you and how you are doing.
    I noticed you were posting on another thread but didn't want to intrude in case you thought I was stalking you. ;)

    What dreadful news about your OH.
    He sounds very lucky to be here but it must be so stressful for you.
    No help sounds so wrong (morally).
    I hope someone comes along with practical advice for you.

    Take care.
    :grouphug:
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    Don't be silly Poll you have been on my two main threads not stalking.

    He is
    Surgeon admitted he didn't think he would be.

    OH remembered the death I was there for the other night so needed calming down.
  • geminilady
    geminilady Posts: 1,922 Forumite
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    mellymoo74 wrote: »
    I need to sort out a new 3rd party host
    Stupid photo bucket.

    How's you A?
    better update

    So
    OH ruptured his oesophagus on 28th April
    Mortality rate is extreme. Basically if its not operated on within 12 hours you have a less than 50% change of survival even with medical intervention.

    He was in Intensive Care for 31 days
    Lots of muscle wastage
    Currently dealing with the madness from dying (I knew of twice and was actually there for one) he died a couple of times during surgery as well have since found out.
    ITU also sends people mad, the belief you are being held hostage is common well worth reading up on is fascinating.

    His mental health made stuff more difficult mainly because the medica professionals didn't start hearing me until his death I was present for.

    He was booted out 3 weeks ago
    Open wounds
    Limited mobility
    No care plan
    Just me.

    ITU sent my mum mad after open heart surgery she was convinced she was being held hostage and being experimented on.Very hard to see someone you love like that it took me ages to convince her it was a normal hospital.
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    They forget that's normal too.
    Yep hostage on a plane or ship cos of the beeps normal it wasn't until he accused me of asking them to turn him off I read into it
  • Gingernutty
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    Sorry to add to the hilarity, but your inbox is full mellymoo.

    You might want to delete the Flickr photo as your name is visible.... sorry.
    :huh: Don't know what I'm doing, but doing it anyway... :huh:
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    Ta Ginger
    Stupid photo bucket changing policy
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