my other half walked out on me and my three year old help!

tinkerbell1978

finally i have time to say thaks you to everyone for posting and also to say so far i have like i said change all the bills into my name i contacting dwp who said they will contact me if they need any further details so i think i am pretty much sorted i just have to keep on top of things i am debt free so that helps too apart from everytime he has been round my son crying for him not to go and to stay and play which broke my heart we have been fine and just getting on with stuff i have some money so we are not worrying at the minute i also booked a driving lesson to get me going and doing a crash course hopefully not lit crash though so i will have wheels and so when he start primary school i can get back to work which i am looking forward to.
am changing the house round to how i want it too and it kinda feels good

thanks for the post and i think we might try and work the visiting out ourselves if it does not work out then maybe a solicitor but i cant stand by and watch him make promises to my son and not keep them time and time again we shall see how it goes. thanks

Loopy_Girl

Glad things are going good Tinkerbell and your son will soon adjust so try not to get bogged down with guilt.

Good news about the driving...I done an intensive course too - couldn't drive on the Monday but by the Friday afternoon I had passed my test and was free to go on the roads - scary stuff now I think about it!! I may have passed my test but was nowhere near able to drive!! Thankfully 8 years later I am experienced now!!!

Keep us posted and come back for a blether/rant/moan/tell us how bad men are if you want!!!

xx

tinkerbell1978

well finally sorted out income support help 60.50 a week but again my sister insists this is wrong as she gets double that but i am not sure i am certain i filled everything out right and that i have given them all they need and that i have asked all the right questions etc do i go back to income support and go hey why does my sister gets twice this in the same situation??

am i doing something wrong?

kelloggs36

Any more is paid by tax credits