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Please please help.

I believe I have a debt problem and not a debt crisis but il let you be the judge. I have listed my income and outgoings to give an estimate of where im coming from.
I earn about £1300 working two jobs my expenses per month are

1000 overdrawn on my barclays graduate account
Car Insurance at £145 pm
Bcard bills totalling £5800 i pay about £200 pm
Student loan of £8000, they take out £15 pm
Eating, money to get through month £100-£150
Savings £200 pm
Phone bill £40
I have to contribute towards household bills which are necessary totalling £350
Oyster card £100 and lastly charities that are £30.

Is there a way that I can consolidate all of these into one? I was thinking about a personal loan but would need about £20,000 to clear debts that are in my name and would like to pay it off quickly rather than have it for 5 or more years. I use to have a really good credit rating until things happened at home causing the spiralling amount of debt. I am only 23 and want to hopefully get married soon but am currently hiding this from my significant other as I really dont know what to do.

Please help on what I can do.

Kind Regards

Comments

  • frugallass
    frugallass Posts: 2,320 Forumite
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    cut the donations to charity for the time being

    try to get cheaper car insurance - why is it so high?

    is the phone bill a landline or mobile?

    I would use the savings to pay off debt
  • peachyprice
    peachyprice Posts: 22,346 Forumite
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    Schar85 wrote: »
    I believe I have a debt problem and not a debt crisis but il let you be the judge. I have listed my income and outgoings to give an estimate of where im coming from.
    I earn about £1300 working two jobs my expenses per month are

    1000 overdrawn on my barclays graduate account
    Car Insurance at £145 pm How much!!!!
    Bcard bills totalling £5800 i pay about £200 pm
    Student loan of £8000, they take out £15 pm
    Eating, money to get through month £100-£150
    Savings £200 pm Put this towards debts
    Phone bill £40 Is this mobile?
    I have to contribute towards household bills which are necessary totalling £350
    Oyster card £100 and lastly charities that are £30. Ditch this

    Is there a way that I can consolidate all of these into one? I was thinking about a personal loan but would need about £20,000 to clear debts that are in my name and would like to pay it off quickly rather than have it for 5 or more years. I use to have a really good credit rating until things happened at home causing the spiralling amount of debt. I am only 23 and want to hopefully get married soon but am currently hiding this from my significant other as I really dont know what to do.

    Please help on what I can do.

    Kind Regards

    You can easily afford another £250 towards debts PM
    Accept your past without regret, handle your present with confidence and face your future without fear
  • MrsTinks
    MrsTinks Posts: 15,238 Forumite
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    Could you break the various amounts down for us with APRs etc? You might find this calculator makes it easier for us to decipher it all :)
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  • LilacPixie
    LilacPixie Posts: 8,052 Forumite
    Consolodating debts is rarely a good idea.

    As Mrs Tine says visit the soa calc as it really helps making things clear. Isn't an oyster card a travel thing??
    MF aim 10th December 2020 :j:eek:
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  • Incisor
    Incisor Posts: 2,271 Forumite
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    Schar85 wrote: »
    I believe I have a debt problem and not a debt crisis but il let you be the judge.

    ...

    Is there a way that I can consolidate all of these into one? I was thinking about a personal loan but would need about £20,000 to clear debts that are in my name and would like to pay it off quickly rather than have it for 5 or more years.

    You cannot clear debt by taking on debt. Face up to it in situ unless you can produce a financial case to move it.

    I use to have a really good credit rating until things happened at home causing the spiralling amount of debt. I am only 23 and want to hopefully get married soon but am currently hiding this from my significant other.

    Don't hide it from someone who is so important to you. If they are any good for you, they will work through this with you. If you hide it, they will find out too late, but quite soon if you see what I mean, and the disappointment they will experience will be a severe body blow to the relationship.
    After the uprising of the 17th June The Secretary of the Writers Union
    Had leaflets distributed in the Stalinallee Stating that the people
    Had forfeited the confidence of the government And could win it back only
    By redoubled efforts. Would it not be easier In that case for the government
    To dissolve the people
    And elect another?
  • NUFCnutter
    NUFCnutter Posts: 408 Forumite
    I agree that the worst thing you can do is hide it from you OH. It will come out and the lying about the problem will be worse than the problem itself. OK if OH decides that they cannot stand to be with you because you are in debt then you know now and not after you are married. It also means that you are not right for each other if your OH would be prepared to dump the relationship because of this. But if OH really cares and loves you then you will work it through together.
    LBM £18463.32 in debt 10th June 2008,
    £12470.99 in debt 10th June 2009.
    :j
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    Fruit flies like a banana. :D
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