DAILY CHAT:June 2nd, 2008 :)

(Land_of)_Maz

LouiseJ wrote: »

Maz- I know exactly how you feel hun I am having problems myself but am Really trying to get them sorted as I wont give up without a fight.

Louise, thanks hun, you've got to give it a real good effort, so if you do have to walk away then you know you have tried.

I'm done fighting to hold it together, i'm getting ready to fight to get out. He always puts up such convincing arguments, promises of change, etc etc but very little actually changes.

Anyway, enough about me n my troubles, this is not the place to discuss them, cause you only feel like a pleb when a fortnight later you've changed your mind!!

skint_spice

Lucifa73 wrote: »

Eeek - don't do anything too rash. I had a major I'm fed up strop just before going to thte hairdresser - I went in with lovely healthy hair halfway down my back and came out with an undercut 1920s bob:eek: I'm still growing it all back (I liked the short cut for all of 5 minutes then went to the gym and couldn't keep it out of my face)

me too! had mine cut last month and soooo regret it, still it's only hair and it'll grow back.

Louise - no lift involved.:D

GingerSte

Snaggles wrote: »

(((hugs))) for those who aren't really where they want to be, and big cheesy, soppy grins for those who are.

I'm not where I want to be at the moment.

Down the pub is where I want to be at the moment. :beer:

jinky67

skint_spice wrote: »

Louise - no lift involved.:D

YOU still havent spilled:rolleyes:

skint_spice

Maz3374 wrote: »

Louise, thanks hun, you've got to give it a real good effort, so if you do have to walk away then you know you have tried.

I'm done fighting to hold it together, i'm getting ready to fight to get out. He always puts up such convincing arguments, promises of change, etc etc but very little actually changes.

Anyway, enough about me n my troubles, this is not the place to discuss them, cause you only feel like a pleb when a fortnight later you've changed your mind!!

aww Maz that's a shame, been there done that etc. and there is life at the other side but like you say if you've put your efforts in and just feel there's nothing left... then again maybe he will change.

Lucifa73

I think its healthy to discuss how you are feeling. It doesn't matter if you do change your mind. Discussing things invites a different viewpoint which may mean its valid to change your mind. It also (for me anyway) helps crystallise what is whirling around inside your head. I've had a few conversations with Hubbles where it started out I thought I was upset/unsure about something (mostly work related) and the discussion helped me realise the root problem was something else - my gripes were a 'symptom' if you like.

I hope that makes sense. Don't shut yourself off because you don't want to vent. From what I've seen so far there is a great support network here that goes well beyond money matters and it would be wasteful not to use that network and I KNOW MSE'ers aren't wasteful!

[Steps off soapbox:p ]

skint_spice

jinky67 wrote: »

YOU still havent spilled:rolleyes:

I'm with Colt Severs on this - not one to kiss and tell...

Lucifa73

jinky67 wrote: »

YOU still havent spilled:rolleyes:

10/10 for persistence

jinky67

skint_spice wrote: »

I'm with Colt Severs on this - not one to kiss and tell...

Dont be quoting the Fall Guy on me:D
Hhummph:rolleyes:

Lucifa73

Who's the Fall Guy?