BOB goes forth

taxi73

Sorry to hear Mr B is being a pain again!!!!...can you maybe take control of his finances again and I can't blame you turnip lobbing at him..lol..hope everything else is ok for you

OberonSH

Gggrrrr @ Mr B - what a twonk. If he gets spending money, take the money to cover the charges out of it. Or Ebay his favourite footy t shirt to make up the difference. I know it's a pain when you work so hard, and one person goes and mucks it up - like you say it's the only thing he's having to do. It's a pain to have to go back to doing it all yourself, plus it means Mr B doesn;t get a lesson.

Tell his mother to go suck on a weasel or better - charge her for each minute you have to wade through her messages - yu'll soon have the difference.

boredofbeingathome

Weasel sucking mother in law..hmm the images in my head right now:rotfl:God Obi you are the queen of fab insults..although the old crow has peed me off all my married life, hope your MIL is behaving herself..now you are all married and such!

THANKS everyone, i needed a bit of an outlet..sorry for sounding off:o :beer:

Have just been out for a walk along the canal, went to the pub..can't drink at mo, but enjoyed chilling with nice tonic, lime and such..plus had good catch up with teenagers and a giggle... Nice bloke said i had a lovely laugh, so Mr.B had better watch himself eh;)

Thanks for the offer of an extra large turnip squizz..maybe borrowing some and smear with curry powder so it gives an extra sting on hitting:cool: :rotfl:

Hi Mizmir, nice to see you back...Hope you have had a fruitful time with work and such..will catch up with you later.

Hi taxi..hows it all with you..i can see sunshine peeping out at mo, so hope trade picks up with a bit of rain for you:rotfl:

Ho bubbles ..You do make me giggle, pillow punching doesn't do it for me..i usually door kick..butam defo going to go away for a couple of days..even if it is to my brothers in wiltshire..might just pack up tomorrow and go off to lakes for a day..see how i feel after that.

He has just come in and made all sorts of excuses up..so will sort it out later.

In_Search_Of_Me

aww bob...sorry Oh being a PITA. Not sure on solution but a break may do you good and also may make your family realise all you do and then you can come back feeling renewed & refreshed? Youve been doing alot lately plus only just over nasty bug...rock lobbing is fab and also going for a drive & screaming your head off is strangely liberating once you get the hang of it (always feels silly initially!!). A ice hot relaxing bath with bubbles may help too? Hugs for you...

boredofbeingathome

Cheers ISOM, i think you are right..it felt like a betrayal because i had been trying extra hard even though i was under the weather..plus i hate sounding off IYKWIM, just because it makes me seem self pitying, and like a need a little violin..might have a look for some more tests to see if i can analyse that statement....:rotfl: Always contradicting myself:rolleyes:
I reckon i am in the storming phase now!:cool:

beanielou

Hi
BOB.
Ths is exactly why Im so glad in a lot of ways that I only have DS & I to worry about.
It would drive me insane.
Enjoy your couple of days away~sounds as if you need them!
Think this is my 5000th post!!

In_Search_Of_Me

Ooo congratulations on your 5000th post beanie!
Bob no need to analyse the anger - its justifiable & totally understandable that you feel angry. You slg your guts out to pay stuff off, save money & he just seems to do nowt other than f*** it up! I'd be fuming & have to say that tales like this just remind me why I'm happy to be single & in control of my finances, even if they are rubbish! I would remove yourself, hot bath & chill and have a calm down....break sounds like a great idea!

taxi73

Rant all you want...it's your diary and that's what we're here for.Like you all were for me.I agree the break will do you good as you've had a lot on your plate

boredofbeingathome

beanielou wrote: »

Hi
BOB.
Ths is exactly why Im so glad in a lot of ways that I only have DS & I to worry about.
It would drive me insane.
Enjoy your couple of days away~sounds as if you need them!
Think this is my 5000th post!!

:T Congrats hun, wow and on my thread as well..now if you would kindly bribe, mr.macdonalds uncle for some free tickets to Hamlet:A :rotfl: :rotfl:

I know what you mean about just the kids..we all get on great together, and i feel life would be mush easier sometimes if i wasn't banging my head against a brick wall:D

redsquirrel80

Ouch, curry-coated turnip, that's gonna sting :eek: Nothing wrong with ranting and nothing wrong with a little bit of self-pity. Sounds like a couple of days away would be good for you.. does he realise how selfish he's being getting charges etc when you're working so hard at making extra? :rolleyes:

xx