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The Compers Inn - Part 3

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  • bella165
    bella165 Posts: 13,127 Forumite
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    everyone im just so gutted toni has left because of cyber bullying from peeps on this site,
    ive been sat here all day thinking if i were back at school you would be in trouble for bullying,
    i also know toniq WONT be back what i think is such a shame as she brought us good advice and fun,
    you know who you are and you should be ashamed of what you have done.
    im sorry if i sound harsh but i regard toniq as a mate and its such a shame to see her go,
    THANKS HUN for all your comps.
    hope you and paul have lots of love and luck to come,
    xxxx
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  • rach29
    rach29 Posts: 2,503 Forumite
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    I've got to say I agree with you Bella, I rarely post on these boards & I can't claim to know Toni, but I have come to "know" her as one of the personalities on this board along with a number of others.

    It's appalling that anyone should be hounded from these boards by pettyness & bullying & I'm truly sorry that she's so upset & feels she cannot return.

    Maybe those who PM'd & caused this situation should take a long hard look at themselves & consider how they might feel in the same position.

    It's about comping people, and as adults we should all know better than to make things personal

    I'd like to wish Toni all the best for the future
    Thanks to all who post comps :A :T
  • bella165
    bella165 Posts: 13,127 Forumite
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    thats very very true, what if our kids were to do it would we tell them off??
    of course we bloody would
    so as elders we should be teaching them right from wrong,
    i aint saying this to upset anyone,
    im just upset that peeps can be so horrid,
    we have lost a good comp finder and someone who we can have a laugh with,
    for what a bit of mindless bullying,
    its the bullys that should go,
    sorry thats the last i will say on it,
    apart from my dissapointment
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  • tttJay
    tttJay Posts: 1,977 Forumite
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    rach29 wrote: »
    I've got to say I agree with you Bella, I rarely post on these boards & I can't claim to know Toni, but I have come to "know" her as one of the personalities on this board along with a number of others.

    It's appalling that anyone should be hounded from these boards by pettyness & bullying & I'm truly sorry that she's so upset & feels she cannot return.

    Maybe those who PM'd & caused this situation should take a long hard look at themselves & consider how they might feel in the same position.

    It's about comping people, and as adults we should all know better than to make things personal

    I'd like to wish Toni all the best for the future

    I've been out all day and would like to say I totally agree......toni, we will miss you a lot, please reconsider.......these people aren't worth getting upset over
    Our Granddaughter, Caitlin Freya is now 7 years old :), growing up to be a lovely young lady and our Grandson, Findlay Ewan is 3 years old and still a lovable bundle of mischief :) one of each, how perfect

  • white_star
    white_star Posts: 5,985 Forumite
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    Last night was the 1st time id been in the Arms for many months, and I only went in as I was hoping to get a drink-in for Toni's 1st Anniversary (and of course see the strippers :o ). Im not really sure what's happened since then, but I do know this place won't be the same without all the time and trouble Toni goes in posting the comps and compiling the lists, which I personally do use and find very helpfull.
    Toni I do hope that you reconsider & stick around you've got lots of MSE mates here :grouphug:
  • bella165
    bella165 Posts: 13,127 Forumite
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    well said everyone i hope in a couple of days or so she may come back but i very much doubt it as shes been crying all day.and that aint nice,
    but nore is bullying
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  • thingamaBob
    thingamaBob Posts: 21,232 Forumite
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    :eek: Buffy's lead down to 28 now. Anyone not voted today?
  • bella165
    bella165 Posts: 13,127 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker Stoptober Survivor
    no i voted and so did my oh and dad
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  • I've voted!
    2025 - finally back comping after a stressful house move - send me fairy dust please
  • tttJay
    tttJay Posts: 1,977 Forumite
    Xmas Saver!
    So have I :D
    Our Granddaughter, Caitlin Freya is now 7 years old :), growing up to be a lovely young lady and our Grandson, Findlay Ewan is 3 years old and still a lovable bundle of mischief :) one of each, how perfect

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