£55k in debt and admitting it!

Cazzerinthedoodoo

Nearly everything is bad as boyfriend no longer wants to live with me....Understandable I never told him the truth when I should Have..!!!!

The only good thing is I got a Job start monday......wages are the lowest min wage cosidering I have a BSc and a Postgrad IT so I will have to get a part time job just to eat.

I will also have to tell my folks and sister and they will be really annoyed...etc...!!!

It's difficult to talk or write about it without getting so upset.

I will try and update when I have more of a resolve......!!!

Caroline

misspoppy

HI Caroline I

I just wanted to drop you a line of support. I'm sorry your boyfriend has taken such a dim view of this and all i can say is that if he's worth keeping he will calm down if he doesn't he wasn't worth having.

There was a lady on a while back who's husband walked out on her and her children when she told him about her debt but he came back so all is not lost.

Congratulations on the job.

Lizzybop

Cazzer,

Have just read you thread and wanted to send you a great big HUG.

Sorry I can't really offer too much practical advice, but if you're qualified in IT (did I read that right??) my husband found that there were some great job agencies out there specialising in IT, when he was out of work.

Hope your family don't give you too hard a time, they might surprise you.

Keep posting, they are a great bunch on here, and I'm sure there'll be plenty of advice/sympathy/good vibes/support coming your way.

Take care of yourself

Lizzy
x

Angel_Cake_3

Hi there, really sorry about your rubbish day!

I agree with MissPoppy, hopefully your boyfriend will come round to what you have told him and support you (through thick and thin)! This could just be a reaction.

Just wanted to give you a little note of support !!

Angel Cake xxxx

poppyg_2

Cazzer, am sure OH will be back once he's had some time to think, it probably came as a huge shock to him and so he needs a bit of time alone

If he doesn't want to live with you then where will you live, i.e. do you live with him at the moment in his house? I wasn't clear from your original post

Congratulations on the job that's great. I know wages aren't perfect as you've said but you could see it as something to keep you going until a better job comes along, I always think it's easier to find a new job if you're working already

Please keep us all updated and continue asking for help/support etc x x

Cazzerinthedoodoo

Thanks everyone for all your support....Update....I think my boyfriend may thinking about forgiving me and won't be throwing me out....phew....!!!

It will take time to heal the wound of trust and hopefully I will be out of debt in the next three years if I use all my skills and a full time job to resolve this situation.

I will keep you up to date ....thanx...caroline

poppyg_2

Great news Cazzer, I'm sure you'll start to feel loads better soon x x

Angel_Cake_3

Brill News!!!!
You have come a long way, admitted your debt and telling your boyfriend. :j After all the emotion settles down I am sure you will feel like a huge weight has been lifted - Keep posting
Angel Cake xx:A

Bismarck

pleased for you Cazzer...have a great weekend and thanks for keeping us posted!

bank_of_slate

Hi Caroline,
Good luck for your new job, you never know, it may lead you to find a really good position!
they always say it's easier to find work when you've got work.
Consider this a stepping stone to the career you deserve!
...Linda xx