Game over please xxx

cistolic

Having said that, (reasons) My boys. OMG. Love em to bits. And I am so lucky they are great.

T--J

I was the same cistolic! I only wanted girls because I'm one of 3 girls, went to an all-girl school and married my first boyfriend so boys were alien creatures to me! :rotfl:... and I ended up with 2 boys! :rolleyes: After our youngest was born, I was still determined we'd try for another after things got a bit easier because I just wanted a healthy one. Things didn't really get any easier for quite a few years though, by which time we decided we were too old to cope with the routines of a baby ... not to mention the extra lifelong worry!

cistolic

T_J I also went to girls school we are on the same planet. Most dont see our thinking. it was so hard but here we are now hopefully laughing, comping and winning with no regrets.

cistolic

If Hamster wins loads if whips can I have one please I need to feel the power, even if it wont work., and a holiday hat too if he gets too many and needs to find a home fer just one

totebag

i was blessed with twins but was sure that they were girls even had names ready Beth and Vickie, but no, boys eventually arrived and they did not have names for a few days!!!

T--J

Absolutely no regrets. I've borrowed Sassi's signature for another forum I visit because it's so true for me:

"I wouldn't change my son for the world but I'd change the world for him"

It took nearly 14 years to come to terms with his problems, something I thought I'd never ever do because I couldn't see how I'd ever be happy that he was born with so many problems. But somehow everything just clicked, I stopped longing for something that just wasn't meant to be and started to enjoy what I did have and I realised that I really wouldn't want him any other way because he truly is a very special person and the light of my life.

iwannabeonthebeach

T--J wrote: »

Absolutely no regrets. I've borrowed Sassi's signature for another forum I visit because it's so true for me:

"I wouldn't change my son for the world but I'd change the world for him"

It took nearly 14 years to come to terms with his problems, something I thought I'd never ever do because I couldn't see how I'd ever be happy that he was born with so many problems. But somehow everything just clicked, I stopped longing for something that just wasn't meant to be and started to enjoy what I did have and I realised that I really wouldn't want him any other way because he truly is a very special person and the light of my life.

I've only been lurking a bit tonight, but just thought I'd say that I think that's such a lovely outlook on life. xxx

T--J

iwannabeonthebeach wrote: »

I've only been lurking a bit tonight, but just thought I'd say that I think that's such a lovely outlook on life. xxx

Thanks. As I said, it took years to get to this stage but I got there in the end! :rotfl:

T--J

Oh and I keep meaning to say what a great avatar. My son had a kidney transplant when he was 3 years old - it not only saved his life but also gave us back ours because they were on hold for the 18 months that he was on dialysis.

totebag

that's lovely t-j you have come to terms with your sons problems and you can be proud and show the world your love for him,