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?? Im stuck .. Help needed Please :)

mandi
mandi Posts: 11,932 Forumite
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I adopted a cat yesterday , shes lovely 4 years old, but so " home sick " .

She spent last night upstairs, and all of today, shes has eaten , but not ..er used her litter tray accept for a pee. and shes finding places to hide.

Any ideas how I can settle her please


Thanks for reading


Mani

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  • orlao
    orlao Posts: 1,090 Forumite
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    TBH, that all sounds fairly normal:D Give her a few more days to settle in, she should start to get brave....maybe encourage her to come to you when you're sitting quietly with some really tasty treats.

    Also, block up anything like chimmneys and gaps behind cuboards:eek: just in case.

    One of my rescue cats spent his first night behind my cooker, really showed up my lack of housekeeping, he was pretty greasy when he emerged!!!!:o
  • dmg24
    dmg24 Posts: 33,920 Forumite
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    I agree, just keep nice and calm around her, and she'll settle in no problems.

    I got Mookee when he was only a few weeks old, he was found on his own on a farm. In the first week he had two little accidents (I don't think he went for a proper toilet for a while either), but even then we just kept calm and he has never had an accident since.

    Now he is so settled that he has his own chair in the lounge, and he sleeps inside my quilt cover (yep, actually inside the cover!). He is currently playing football, I am trying to join in but the ball never quite reaches me!

    Enjoy! x
    Gone ... or have I?
  • tealady
    tealady Posts: 3,851 Forumite
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    Hi Mandi. One of mine took a week to settle, however as long as they are eating thats a good sign.
    Give her time to get used to the sounds and smells of her new home, also try leaving a catnip toy where she can reach it.
    TBH 24 hours isn't long, I'm sure within days she will be coming to tell you what she wants.
    Can you post a picture and her name, I feel rude just saying she all the time.
    Find out who you are and do that on purpose (thanks to Owain Wyn Jones quoting Dolly Parton)
  • Sparky67
    Sparky67 Posts: 1,147 Forumite
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    If she's eaten that's a good sign - the rest is pretty normal behaviour from an adult rehomed cat. Leave her in peace until she settles down, and she will gradually come out of her shell.
  • sammy_kaye18
    sammy_kaye18 Posts: 3,776 Forumite
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    Agreed - any animal/person needs time to settle. For example only - You wouldnt be able to move to a new strange neighbourhood and feel 100% safe in your new house the second you moved in would you?

    After a week she should settle down a bit more, praise her if she comes to you or out of her hiding place and maybe reward her with a little treat - but dont forceit - she'll coem when shes ready. Shes only finding her feet.
    Time to find me again
  • mirrorimage0
    mirrorimage0 Posts: 3,918 Forumite
    congrats n your new family member, like the others said give her some time she will be fine, it took jess 2 days to go a toilet and our little lady truly a3 days (and the it stunk), we have had jess about 7 weeks now and its like she has always been here whereas truly has been here 3 weeks and is still really nervous and runs away but when we are sitting quitley she will cme and sit next to us or if we are in bed she will lay with us for a stroke
    now proud mum to 3 handsome boys :j latest one born 10/10/11:j
  • tishywish
    tishywish Posts: 210 Forumite
    One cat I rehomed as an adult spent a week behind the washing machine and he was a brave cat normally - I think things like that are fairly normal when they first come to a new home. Just give her time, block up any spaces where she could get stuck if you can, and just let her settle in and find her own space.

    Good luck with her, and congratulations on rehoming an older cat, too - so many people ignore them in favour of young cats when looking for a cat to adopt.
    LBM: March 2008
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  • We got our cat from the rescue shelter. For the first week or two he hid under cabinets and only came out when we were out of the room.
    However, one night, we had KFC for tea and he slowly came out from under the unit. Never left us alone ever since!
    And god help us if he catches sight of that red box!!
    ;)I am not a complete idiot - some parts are missing;)


  • mjburton
    mjburton Posts: 147 Forumite
    I got a DAP diffuser from the vets (its a plug in thing). It appartly gives off cat pheromones and reminds them of being with their mother (or something like that!).
    I was quite sceptical but my cat, who had remained with my parents until I lived in a suitable place for her, was struggling to adapt and settle into new surroundings and was ready to try anything. She really improved. Was far more relaxed.

    It might be worth a try if she's very upset and skittish. Vets unlikely to be cheapest place though. Try to make sure your cat has a bit of space and not always being checked on as they can find it overbearing despite the good intention!!

    Congratulations on adopting a cat in need.
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