daughters rights-abusive neighbour

spidyem_frued

hello friends!!!need some help...I live in the a second floor flat..year ago i had a falling out with neighbour below me, she had a go at my daughter for feedin ducks. She. is a gossip and acts the victim to get people on her side( not that i feel there is any to be). The flat had never been designed to be an old folks home or void of children. Another neighbour flipped his lid the other day and started f'in and blinding and yells he is sick of the kids running around the place and they should not be in the building. he then starts to square up to my other half and goad my partner. We say we are not intimidated by him and ask if he is threatening us. he yells f-off and now is dead eyeing us. oh yes he keeps saying ' do you know who iam? petty i know by my attempts to resolve via the leasehold is brushed off. The gossips partner is also the spokesman for us tenants. I have contacted the police as i feel my daughter has a right to enjoy the garden and her rights are being infringed. I have also called a solictor as i want this nipped in the bud and to send a strong message that i will not tolerate intimidation...ok my friends have i got abit to hasty...Spids

marleyboy

Are you sure this post is in the right board?

jet77

That's terrible and such a shame that you can't lead a 'normal' family life because of these mean people. I'm sure that some people forget what it was like to be little or even what it's like to parent a little one. Can't offer you any advice I'm afraid but just wanted to post to wish you the best of luck in sorting it out. I know it's prob not a great prospect as it may be seen to be 'backing down' but moving may be a good option.

spidyem_frued

Thanks..may have posted in the wrong area, but I thought I would rent out to temp accom...see how the flats sell around me...thanks for the listen ....it helps and on a good note I will drown my sorrows in getting my charges back and my insurance claim done!!!YEAH!!!!!

PasturesNew

I have no idea what that meant....

lisa_martin_2

spidyem_frued wrote: »

Thanks..may have posted in the wrong area, but I thought I would rent out to temp accom...see how the flats sell around me...thanks for the listen ....it helps and on a good note I will drown my sorrows in getting my charges back and my insurance claim done!!!YEAH!!!!!

Wow.... I am baffled

SquatNow

If you have problems with your neighbours dog, what you need is a bigger, meaner dog.

spidyem_frued

what I meant was...thanks for the rant...I am not getting caught up in the neighbours lives...soooo...I will search this site and put my energy into doing things for me such as downloading templates as i was originally doing when I got side tracted by my crabby neighbour...
Looking at my last posts it does look as is I was abit fried!lol

SquatNow

spidyem_frued wrote: »

Looking at my last posts it does look as is I was abit fried!lol

not frued?

PasturesNew

I stayed quiet earlier as I thought the story would develop and I'd have a better understanding. On first pass, this is what my first thoughts were:

spidyem_frued wrote: »

she had a go at my daughter for feedin ducks.

It depends what they were being fed and in which season. It can be fatal I believe.

spidyem_frued wrote: »

The flat had never been designed to be an old folks home or void of children.

Maybe also not a Theme Park for kids.

spidyem_frued wrote: »

yells he is sick of the kids running around the place

Enough to wear the nerves of a saint if they are running around the place. Communal hallways have a way of really resounding, especially if it's not noise originating from your own homestead.

spidyem_frued wrote: »

my attempts to resolve via the leasehold is brushed off.

Can't comment as no details on what you did/said and the response.

spidyem_frued wrote: »

I have contacted the police as i feel my daughter has a right to enjoy the garden and her rights are being infringed.

We've no idea about the garden. My neighbour had a visitor the other day and her kid was running around my garden, because the garden isn't communal. I let it go that once. I don't see it's a police issue.

spidyem_frued wrote: »

I have also called a solictor as i want this nipped in the bud and to send a strong message that i will not tolerate intimidation

One man's intimidation is another person's assertiveness at being thoroughly f00ked off.

Not enough detail really for us to comment, advise, give opinions or anything.

Just an odd place to rant.