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my first person to complain

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  • that is what she has sent back what should i reply to it

    What happens if the bag dissappears in the post or you continue to say its new even though it isn't? Im going to be left with no bag and no money?
    dont do weight loss i do size loss
    size loss nearly out of a 22 :D
    now in a size 20 :T :T :T
  • pinkgem
    pinkgem Posts: 3,299 Forumite
    tell her to send it back by a trackable method and she will be able to prove if it has been delivered
  • custardy
    custardy Posts: 38,365 Forumite
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    i wouldnt get bogged down in conversation.
    you have given her the available options
  • katy-lou
    katy-lou Posts: 487 Forumite
    that is what she has sent back what should i reply to it

    What happens if the bag dissappears in the post or you continue to say its new even though it isn't? Im going to be left with no bag and no money?

    Sounds like she was going to use the lost in the post excuse to me.

    Quite unreasonable she wants the bag and a refund :rotfl:
  • Kay_Peel
    Kay_Peel Posts: 1,672 Forumite
    It's her responsibility to get the bag back to you. Don't answer that rhetorical question from her. Custardy's right about not getting into any conversation with her at all.

    You've made your position clear. The ball is in her court. She shouldn't ask you for answers to her problems about postage and packing.

    If you feel that you must answer her, then say something non-committal like:

    'You might want to look at the Buyer's Complaint procedure on the Ebay and Paypal Help Pages. You will find clear instructions on the safest method of delivery.'

    And leave it at that.
  • Jakg
    Jakg Posts: 2,267 Forumite
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    that is what she has sent back what should i reply to it

    What happens if the bag dissappears in the post or you continue to say its new even though it isn't? Im going to be left with no bag and no money?
    Personally I would tell them that if they use recorded delivery then they can tell it's not lost in the post, and that they should understand it from your position - you have sold a bag you are sure is new (even if the buyer disagrees), and now the Buyer wants you to refund here and you could be left with no bad and no money...
    Nothing I say represents any past, present or future employer.
  • feelgudtime
    feelgudtime Posts: 119 Forumite
    well she said she can not be bothered sending it back and left me neg feedback
    dont do weight loss i do size loss
    size loss nearly out of a 22 :D
    now in a size 20 :T :T :T
  • pinkgem
    pinkgem Posts: 3,299 Forumite
    well she said she can not be bothered sending it back and left me neg feedback

    leave a follow up to the feedback she left you stating that you offered a refund upon return of the item but buyer refused to return
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