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son through illness, changed jobs etc now living abroad and not earning enough has written to mbna asking for a freeze of interest rates and a payment scheme. They have refused saying before consider would have to be in arrears. i have kept paying it up till now but cant anymore. We have written again asking for a settlement instead of them defaulting him, instead of getting something which is sure;y not in anybodys best interest.
What is best way to go about this?

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  • pay what you owe.......god why do people always look for the easy way out. ?
    nothing.
  • MPH80
    MPH80 Posts: 973 Forumite
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    While Tom may have been blunt in his response ... think about it this way ... why would a bank or anyone accept the word of someone that they can't pay, until they prove they don't.

    If you are paying it - then the bank clearly believe it has a good chance of getting all its money back and you have to prove otherwise ... how do you do that - you stop paying and let them chase it!

    Then they'll start thinking about settlement figures.

    Think about it this way - if you leant someone £100 on the understanding they'd pay you £10 a month for 20 months ... and they, 5 months in, said "sorry - can't pay the rest - would you accept £70 more quid" ... would you accept that - given they'd been paying the £10 happily? I'd be asking - why? what's changed? show me! prove it!

    The banks are no different and the punishment for not being able to repay is the damage to your credit rating.

    M.
  • Thanks for the polite response MPH80, that response I can work with.
  • YorkshireBoy
    YorkshireBoy Posts: 31,541 Forumite
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    MPH80 wrote: »
    ...the punishment for not being able to repay is the damage to your credit rating.
    ...and this damage, in the form of a default/CCJ, could last for up to 6 years.

    Even an 'arrangement to pay' (which is what I think you're looking for) would damage his credit rating, albeit less than the above.
  • hey, I'm i the same boat as your son with MBNA. Has anyone else been in this position with MBNA?
  • pay the minimum, or ruin your credit score, quite simple really. You don't get anything for free and nor should you.
    nothing.
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