going back to mams

Numpty_Monkey

I think i'm gonna need a bit of help and a few hugs

I realised today that i cannot afford to keep my flat
thought i'd fixed my washer on the cheap (first time i've used ebay)
guess thats whats tipped me oer the edge

How do you go about leaving somewhere,

all the bills and stuff

thanks for any help

LouiseJ

First of all Numpty I want to send you lots of :grouphug: :grouphug: :grouphug:

Are you sure it is definately come to this for you. Sometimes when you are upset things can overwhelm you. If you have definately decided to move out then it is just a case of informing all your suppliers that you are moving out and the date.

Basically you need to tell everyone your new address and can get your post re-directed to your Mam's for a while incase you miss anything.

Chin up Sweetheart, there will be lots of support coming soon.

Buffythedebtslayer

Lots of hugs as requested, are you positive you can't afford it? Do you rent or is it yours? any chance you could rent it out instead?

I guess its a of making a list of the stuff to cancel and going from there.

sorry tho more hugs xxx

rog2

Hey N-M - that's what parents are for - my son came 'back home' ten years ago and has never left (we've been tempted to move whilst he's out though - only joking).
If it hasn't worked out for you this time, you will, at least, have learned some very good lessons, and, next time, you will be better prepared.
Good luck, and lots of hugs. :grouphug: :grouphug:

tigtag02

I can only reiterate what the others have said hun

Have we [STRIKE]picked your SOA to bits[/STRIKE] helped you with your SOA at all?

Here's some obligatory

Numpty_Monkey

Thanks all for the hugs they are well needed and very much welcomed my SOA is down to the bones nothing left to cut back on


tig why has pic made me giggle

buffy its rented

rog, thanks mate guess i won't feel as silly going back

LouiseJ thank you hun

tigtag02

Numpty_Monkey wrote: »

Thanks all for the hugs they are well needed and very much welcomed my SOA is down to the bones nothing left to cut back on


tig why has pic made me giggle

buffy its rented

rog, thanks mate guess i won't feel as silly going back

LouiseJ thank you hun

its coz you is mad innit

smashedbooboo

Hi hun am at work so cant help you much at minute. But sending hugs. Dont worry too uch. you know there is loads of help and support here.

taxi73

Poor numpty monkey...perhaps moving back home you will be able to clear you're debts a lot quicker and have a new start,.HUGS from here too x

Toto

rog2 wrote: »

Hey N-M - that's what parents are for - my son came 'back home' ten years ago and has never left (we've been tempted to move whilst he's out though - only joking).
:grouphug: :grouphug:

Rog my mum did do that, us kids moved back home 1 by 1 until all 6 of us were back on a 'temporary' basis all over the age of 20. Anyway, one day it was way past dinner time and she wasn't home, so we phoned my nan asking if she'd seen her (in the days before mobiles). Nan told us that mum had gone and rented the house up the road for 6 months :eek:

We found her though and thank god she still had an oven and a washing machine so we weren't totally abandoned :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

Candy0107

Hi,

My hubby and I moved back to my mums in Aug last year. It was the best option for all at the time.

Yes, there are a few issues (privacy ~ me and hubby can no longer walk around in the nud:rolleyes: and my mum insists on doing my washing ~I WANT to do my own :mad:), but then, I just think that in a few years, I will be debt free.

So, my advice is, go home (I am sure that your mum thinks that her home is also your home), become debt free, and start again from there.

Take care