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  • Diamond78
    Diamond78 Posts: 1,443 Forumite
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    Diamond HR woman really doesn't seem to like me :( She wouldn't even discuss the missing letters with me or why I was never told of the original appointment. Grrr stupid ppl. Last time I went it took over an hour and a half by car, so it's quite far. This time though I will have to try and work out which trains to get on.

    Gillette Have you been playing golf today?

    RBK, I get the impression she is making things difficult for you.At the end of the day, she isnt doing her job properly by not informing you of the app's and letters. Maybe thats the way HR is run but this is why you need to speak to the manager and put a letter in writing saying in future, you want a copy of all letters regarding your apps ect sent to you as you have not received them and this is causing you to be stressed on top of everything else. Maybe the unhelpful wowan is like that to everyone but it wouldnt hurt her to be helpful. I dont get some ppl, why is it so hard sometimes to be polite and helpful?I know parts of london well. If you want pm me and I can try and find the easiest route for you.Take care and have a good day at work.Lots of hugs xx
  • LadyMorticia
    LadyMorticia Posts: 19,899 Forumite
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    Does anyone have a sledge hammer? I'm peeved off and need to smash something.

    xx
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  • shazrobo
    shazrobo Posts: 3,313 Forumite
    Does anyone have a sledge hammer? I'm peeved off and need to smash something.

    xx
    no sledge hammer hun, but i'm here to listen if you need to vent
    big hugs
    shaz xxx
    enjoy life, we only get one chance at it:)
  • LadyMorticia
    LadyMorticia Posts: 19,899 Forumite
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    shazrobo wrote: »
    no sledge hammer hun, but i'm here to listen if you need to vent
    big hugs
    shaz xxx

    ****hugs****

    Just a user who seems to be stalking me and tripping me up on everything I say. :(
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  • shazrobo
    shazrobo Posts: 3,313 Forumite
    ****hugs****

    Just a user who seems to be stalking me and tripping me up on everything I say. :(
    sorry to hear that hun, if you possibly can i would stay well clear of this person
    enjoy life, we only get one chance at it:)
  • LadyMorticia
    LadyMorticia Posts: 19,899 Forumite
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    shazrobo wrote: »
    sorry to hear that hun, if you possibly can i would stay well clear of this person

    I have added them to my ignore list.
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  • hi,
    always miss loads when im gone.
    gario...good luck.xx

    steph....keep your chin up.xx

    juno.....i knew you could do it,you are so hard on yourself.congrats.xx

    rbk....i think you sound like the sanest one out of your work crowd...they deffo have some very nasty issues they should be seeing someone out!!!as for your mate re the flat,everyone has bad habits and he should mind his own beeswax, and give you benefit of doubt.sh has nowt to do with him and how does he know that you wouldnt be the best flat sharer in the world.honestly some ppl are so biased, you are right to be mad.

    rose...lovely pics and great to hear from you. glad alls going well.xx

    shaz....im ok atm.just trying to get back to fighting fitness but this cough seems to want to be my close friend all the time:)glad you had a good family day yesday.

    diamond.....this flat thing would make a weaker woman give up the ghost so im really proud of you as they certainly are trying to put every hurdle out for you.really hope you get a wonderful place asap as you really deserve it.

    hi badger....dont be digging any holes in those beautiful greens!!hope this new hobby keeps you out of mischief......but i doubt it!!!:)xx

    ladym.....ds is a very big dr who fanactic.watches all the progs, collects the mags and figures and cards...and knows every monster going.hope you are ok today.

    meyore...hixx

    tiff......think we are about same age so we could be cyber sisters:)all sounds well with you,im glad.xx

    im sorry if i missed anyone.take care all.
    love ilgd xx
    People bring great joy into our lives..some by arriving, others by leaving.im trying to be one of the former, so please bear with :)

    LOVE ME, LOVE MY NEWFOUNDLAND.:A
  • gillette147
    gillette147 Posts: 13,296 Forumite
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    Hiya folkes,

    I meant watching the golf. I do play but not for about 2 yrs. I link golf with my dad so when I play it is an emotional thing.

    I've been all round M25 to Dartford and back today. Back early so I've had my hair cut and been the shop. A sensible person would do his homework tonite (it's today or tomora) but I've settled down now.

    I've bought all healthy stuff. I am going on a diet next moday (I need to clear the house of norty stuff and it's my mom's 70th bash over the weekend).
    I want to get less fat and have a bit of a life again.

    My salsa friend and her fiance came over yesterday. I am helping him learn so they can dance on the wedding day. It reminded me how I used to go out and converse with people. I really need to do that again. I am such a hermit now.

    I hope the rain has passed and you are all in the sunshine
    xxx
    Girls are gonna love the way I toss my hair. Boys are gonna hate the way I seem.

    I would rather drown with you than watch the surf with someone else
  • Diamond78
    Diamond78 Posts: 1,443 Forumite
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    Hello All,
    Well I have good news for you all. I went to the council and waited ages and told them Im not moving till I get the key. And I got the key!!
    Thank god for that.Im so happy I will be getting out of here but dreading it.All the moving, unpacking, trying to get settled, Its going to take me ages. Now I have to arrange a van. An old friend of mine which i hadnt seen in years, said he could get a van from work and will try do it for me tomorrow. But its not defianate. I have so much stuff, I have done a lot of packing.But still have to try and dismantle my double bed, disconnect the washing machine, pack the rest of stuff but I have no boxes left.I asked a friend if she could help me but she said she had to wait till her granddaughter goes back to school.I have always helped my friend, all I needed was an extra 2 hands to help with a few bits. But when ever I ask her for help, Its always the same type of excuse.
    Anyway, my head is all over the place. I have so much stuff to do and so many places to ring, I feel lost and confused.I wont be online as of tomorrow. Dont know how long for but I hope you all know how grateful I am to you all for being there for me and giving me encouragement and support when ppl in my life I know and have, havent bothered with me.Chat to u al soon everyone, HUGS n LOVE 2U all xxxx
  • gillette147
    gillette147 Posts: 13,296 Forumite
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    I love any thread that includes the phrase "I'm so happy"
    xxx
    Girls are gonna love the way I toss my hair. Boys are gonna hate the way I seem.

    I would rather drown with you than watch the surf with someone else
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