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really really really scared

Hi there,

DH will be going bankrupt in pretty soon with massive debts that we cannot pay (70k)

Myself as his wife stays at home and looks after our 2 sons
Please dont criticise me for what i am about to say, i resorted to selling concert tickets on ebay to help bring money into our home, whilst doing this we were still (and still are!) massively over drawn, to the tune of 8k!! so really trying to stop going over the 8k overdraft, still that much od now

hubby business did not work hardly ever got paid, therefore cash advances on the cards, upping existing loans etc etc, this happened over 4-5 years hence it all catching up now,

When hubby does go BR and the OR sees bank statements, he will see transactions for ticket companies every other day , then large paypal transfers every other day too, (all i was trying to was to pay debt) obv at OR interview hubby will say that to help bring money iin this is what we did.

Will he be in tons of trouble, will they want to know ebay id, username , password etc etc,

This is a real big worry of mine and really worried if he gets in even more troulble even though we were trying to make ens meet!!

any advice on how he should handle this,, or any advice on the complications

do you think my paypal/ebay acc could be closed by ebay (not sure whatfor or why), do you think the or and ebay/paypal communicate with each other

thank you

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