DFW Daily Chat 22 March

jinky67

lennymfo wrote: »

Hey tig, 2 birds with one stone

One *bone* surely?:p

tigtag02

jinky67 wrote: »

Hope you dont think I am being cheeky but if has always been like that why have you stayed?
Why is it a problem now?

Probably because she is worn down (sorry for answering for you there Bun)

tigtag02

jinky67 wrote: »

One *bone* surely?:p

:T :T

:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

jinky67

tigtag02 wrote: »

Probably because she is worn down (sorry for answering for you there Bun)

I kind of know that,just wondered if there was anything else

Bunnyinthelights

To be honest Jinky,
I'm not sure-I guess it's because he ticked every single other box...and at the time, that was more important. AND, (being a woman!) I though I could change him. More fool me.

I think it's an issue now because I'm nearly 40 and I think it's called mid-life crisis...lol

jinky67

Bunnyinthelights wrote: »

To be honest Jinky,
I'm not sure-I guess it's because he ticked every single other box...and at the time, that was more important. AND, (being a woman!) I though I could change him. More fool me.

I think it's an issue now because I'm nearly 40 and I think it's called mid-life crisis...lol

He must have been good then;)
I think its called how long can I live like this?:o

Wol2

Bunnyinthelights wrote: »

To be honest Jinky,
I'm not sure-I guess it's because he ticked every single other box...and at the time, that was more important. AND, (being a woman!) I though I could change him. More fool me.

I think it's an issue now because I'm nearly 40 and I think it's called mid-life crisis...lol

Or perhaps it's because you fell in love with what you imagined he could be...and not what he actually is????....And perhaps it;s only now that you are starting to think that perhaps he's not going to change?

Sorry to be so blunt....

Wol2
xxx

Bunnyinthelights

Thanks Wol,
You articulated what I was thinking
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skint_spice

I'm off to bed but just wanted to say that I hope you work things out Bunny - either with or without your OH.

don't make any hasty decisions but give yourself time to think.:grouphug:

Wol2

Bunnyinthelights wrote: »

Thanks Wol,
You articulated what I was thinking
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So you're startng to objectively "process" all the information you have received over the years. That's good...but remember there is always more than one outcome to this. Ultimately, after reflection....you need to decide what is best for you.,,,and what you are prepared to accept. But please do give your self-esteem some credit (and loving!!) in all of this.

Hugs
Wol2
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