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Rant Rant Rant - Bad Buyers!!!!

Sorry, everyone, just gotta get this off my chest

Had a buyer who bought an item from me recently, who paid by echeque. I sent her a nice personal email, thanking her for her payment and explaining that I would post the item out to her as soon as the echeque cleared. Then received back a very abrupt and rude email saying 'you know you're getting your money, can't you post it today, my daughter's waiting for it'. So I forwarded a copy of the email from Paypal pointing out (again really politely) the bit that warns sellers not to post items before the echeque clears. Didn't hear anything back from her in response. About four days later, I made contact again, saying 'just wanted to keep in touch, let you know that the echeque still hasn't cleared, is due to do so on (date), and of course I'll post your item as soon as it's cleared'. Again no response. Couple of days later, during the afternoon, I had the confirmation email that the echeque had cleared, so I made a special journey to the PO to post the item to her that same afternoon, and emailed her to let her know that it was on it's way. Didn't hear anything back from her.

Yesterday evening, received a neutral fb, saying 'thanks'. What a b***h.
Have to admit, I have negged her (with the comment 'Really rude buyer, left neutral as I wouldn't post item b4 echeque cleared'), as I was so livid (and let's face it, with the new fb rules coming, it'll prob be my last chance to do so!).

Just makes me dread the whole feedback changes even more.

OK, rant over!

Comments

  • Hintza
    Hintza Posts: 19,420 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    My only comment would be for low value items I find it easier just to post it out. Saves on hassle and hanging around to close a deal.


    For higher value you were quite right. Get those negs in now...time is running out...;)
  • peter_the_piper
    peter_the_piper Posts: 30,269 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    This is a classic example as to why the neg feedback should be left as it is. At least you can leave negative remarks in the positive box, well you can for a while.
    I'd rather be an Optimist and be proved wrong than a Pessimist and be proved right.
  • Sssssss
    Sssssss Posts: 1,094 Forumite
    This is a classic example as to why the neg feedback should be left as it is. At least you can leave negative remarks in the positive box, well you can for a while.

    and maybe this is exactly why they are changing the rules, a neg in return for a neutral seems a bit OTT.
  • Morty_007
    Morty_007 Posts: 1,496 Forumite
    Sssssss wrote: »
    and maybe this is exactly why they are changing the rules, a neg in return for a neutral seems a bit OTT.

    Oh not at all! The sellers experience was a negative one, hence negative feedback! IMO They haven't negged in retalliation but to warn others of a RUDE buyer.
    Good Enough Club member number 27(2) AND I got me a stalkee!
    Closet debt free wannabe -[STRIKE] Last personal loan payment - July 2010[/STRIKE]:T, credit card balance about £3000 (and dropping FAST), [STRIKE]Last car payment September 2010 (August 2010 aparently!!)[/STRIKE]
    And a mortgage in a pear tree :D
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