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D day is upon me!

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  • All the best for tomorrow Vici, I'm sure you will be fine. Let us know how you got on tomorrow.
    The first time we said hello, was the first time we said goodbye. As the angels took your tiny hand and flew you to the sky-you forever left us breathless. RIP my beautiful granddaughter :(
  • G-G_4
    G-G_4 Posts: 3,090 Forumite
    Good Luck Vici.. xx

    Take the tablets.. I do :)

    I think it can take weeks or months to feel the relief.. probably because it all seems too easy.

    I would maybe ask your mum to go with you though, even if she waits in the car maybe? Or in the reception, just incase you need someone.. x

    x
    :D BSC Member 155 :cool:
  • Good Luck Vici
    Sarah x
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  • cazjenki
    cazjenki Posts: 370 Forumite
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    Well I too am back on the ADs I would no way have coped otherwise through all of this. My mum is coming to court with me in the morning, I couldn't face it on my own to be honest although she will probably be more anxious than me and i'll be sitting there calming HER down lol. Well its our fresh start tomorrow, we'll both be sitting in court at the same time too, hope it goes well.
  • jaysgirl
    jaysgirl Posts: 43 Forumite
    Hope everything goes well for you Vici, Just remember nothing is as bad as your imagination.
    Jaysgirl
  • StressHead
    StressHead Posts: 62 Forumite
    Good luck for tomorrow Vici & Cazjenki... xxx
  • dalip
    dalip Posts: 7,045 Forumite
    Good luck girl.We will be here when you get back to tell us all about it.
    EW & BLIND AS. I went bc in nov and i still do not feel total relief,i am hoping that comes with AD. In fact yesterday was the first day i went out in daylight(or night for that matter)round our village,to take flowers to my mums grave.I look at everyone i meet and search for signs that "they know".How pathetic is that????.:o Dalip
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  • Scarlett.1974
    Scarlett.1974 Posts: 2,765 Forumite
    Good luck Vici, don't forget to come back and let us all know how it went :)

    For me, there was some relief after the day itself (not loads, I didn't leave court skipping and dancing), I think it was more relief that the court bit was over. I don't think I'll be truely able to relax and move on with the next stage of my life until after the OR interview, am totally dreading that :o
    You can't control everything in life....... your hair was put on your head to remind you of that :p

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  • mumoftwins
    mumoftwins Posts: 2,498 Forumite
    Good luck for today Vici and Cazjenki xxx:grouphug:
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  • Vici
    Vici Posts: 130 Forumite
    Right, i'm off. See you all later :)
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