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mich_city

POLO_BINT wrote: »

Morning everyone!

Just popping by to say hi, doubt I will get on much for the next few days

Got my win of £160 in post... also won a Camden crawl Cd.... and to top it all off I had a four paged text from the savages dad out of the blue telling me he isn't picking her up today and wont be coming back either! He is in gloucester.... we are in Looe.....!!!!! So needless to say my head is a shed and he isnt answering his mobile! I am in shock!!! He had planned to take her and her best mate to the cinema today as well, so the savage spent an hour before bed on the phone to her mate getting excited!!!!!! OH luckily has a day of so has taken them... cinema is 27miles from us!!!!! I am not in the frame of mind to snap.... i dont know whether to be angry...... upset...... arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Im going to go and bang my head repeatedly against a concrete wall!!!!

ttfn xxxxx

take care polo.. my ex used to be like that.. beggared off to live with 'his new woman' 4 hours drive away, was always letting the kids down.. infact, still does and they are now 20 + 21 :rolleyes:

xxxxxx

rogart

Come back Little Otter.........................

Little_Otter

rogart wrote: »

Come back Little Otter.........................

I am here, whats wrong..... ?? x x x x

orangelily8

POLO_BINT wrote: »

Morning everyone!

Just popping by to say hi, doubt I will get on much for the next few days

Got my win of £160 in post... also won a Camden crawl Cd.... and to top it all off I had a four paged text from the savages dad out of the blue telling me he isn't picking her up today and wont be coming back either! He is in gloucester.... we are in Looe.....!!!!! So needless to say my head is a shed and he isnt answering his mobile! I am in shock!!! He had planned to take her and her best mate to the cinema today as well, so the savage spent an hour before bed on the phone to her mate getting excited!!!!!! OH luckily has a day of so has taken them... cinema is 27miles from us!!!!! I am not in the frame of mind to snap.... i dont know whether to be angry...... upset...... arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Im going to go and bang my head repeatedly against a concrete wall!!!!

ttfn xxxxx

:mad::mad::mad:
So angry Polo, don't know what to say, effin !!!!!
Big Hugs to you ,Cleo and OH xxx

POLO_BINT

mich_city wrote: »

take care polo.. my ex used to be like that.. beggared off to live with 'his new woman' 4 hours drive away, was always letting the kids down.. infact, still does and they are now 20 + 21 :rolleyes:

xxxxxx

he started off doing this, I was with him almost 6 yrs got preggers and had to give him the boot when savage was 9months old due to him drinking... violence ... and a week after i kicked him out learnt it was drugs as well!!!! (good job i gave him boot when i did lol), he saw her on and off for a few months always letting her down.... then he left a note saying he couldnt cope with it all after trying to get back together with me but i didnt have any of it..... didnt see her for 3-4 yrs..... no contact, bday cards. money.... nothing...... I text him after my first hip operation 3 years ago..... took him a few months to reply... but he has been part f her life ever since! She knows no different!!! He split with his girlfriend of 4 yrs just before xmas.... me and OH put him up at OH's flat over the road.... fed him.... washed his clothes.... did everything for him!!!!! Have never had a penny off him..... he is on the bare bones of his backside...... I give him savages child benefit money each weekend so he can take her out to do stuff with... when he has her during the holidays he gets that and her tax credits also!!!! Each birthay and christmas every present i buy i put his name on it also! He happily sits round xmas day getting the thanks but never contributes!!! This never bothered me until NOW lol I always thought to myself one day he would see her right when he was able to. We helped him get a place to live so he didnt feel a burden to OH..... he was working for his brother doing up a bungalow for his mum in gloucester as he is a builder.... he was not getting paid for this either! So he would travel down every weekend to she DD. Ive lent him dosh.... listed things on ebay for him.... involved him with everything!!! Mates joke I have two OH's !!!!!!!!!! So this is totally baffled me as we get on so very well?!?!?!?! If I want to B! tch - i go to him... and vice versa!
He stays in my living room when me and OH go out for a saturday night out, I only did his washing for him last weekend !!!! He helps himself to sandwiches... drinks etc... like an open house really!!!! I am totally confuzzled!!!!!! And I really hope he isnt back on the coke again!!!!! He is a great dad!!!!!!
I cant figure out what is going on as he won answer mobile! I have text to say I will call him in half an hour and whatever the problem we will always work it out as we always have done, told him not to be silly and if he had fallen off the wagon just for one wekend it isnt a problem!!!!! Told him the savage thinks he has had to work overtime so to speak, let him know that OH had taken hem to cinema so when I did ring we could both chat freely......... and when I did he still didnt answer!

As much as I want to ring him... and his neck... I am trying not to pester him! He is obviously "not of sound mind" lol

I just dont know what else to do!!!! I feel sick to the tummy Arghhhhhhh - I have become like the rest of you now by winging openly on the main board;):p

Arghhhh grrrrrrrrrr bahhhhhhh hhhhhmmmmffffttttttttt I dont know where to put myself ........ perhaps if I go back to bed I wont think about it!!!! :rotfl:

sparky61

POLO_BINT wrote: »

Morning everyone!

Just popping by to say hi, doubt I will get on much for the next few days

Got my win of £160 in post... also won a Camden crawl Cd.... and to top it all off I had a four paged text from the savages dad out of the blue telling me he isn't picking her up today and wont be coming back either! He is in gloucester.... we are in Looe.....!!!!! So needless to say my head is a shed and he isnt answering his mobile! I am in shock!!! He had planned to take her and her best mate to the cinema today as well, so the savage spent an hour before bed on the phone to her mate getting excited!!!!!! OH luckily has a day of so has taken them... cinema is 27miles from us!!!!! I am not in the frame of mind to snap.... i dont know whether to be angry...... upset...... arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Im going to go and bang my head repeatedly against a concrete wall!!!!

ttfn xxxxx

What a git :mad: I'm sure we can all rustle up some virtual slaps for him. Lovely of your oh to take them, she'll remember things like that. :T

POLO_BINT

orangelily8 wrote: »

:mad::mad::mad:
So angry Polo, don't know what to say, effin !!!!!
Big Hugs to you ,Cleo and OH xxx

tell me he is a complete t0sser and im better we are better off without him in dd's life and make me believe that is tue ... then I would feel better :rotfl:The fact I know she needs him is torture as it is out of my hands !!!

Humfpt... what an anchor he is!!!!

Little_Otter

POLO_BINT wrote: »

he started off doing this, I was with him almost 6 yrs got preggers and had to give him the boot when savage was 9months old due to him drinking... violence ... and a week after i kicked him out learnt it was drugs as well!!!! (good job i gave him boot when i did lol), he saw her on and off for a few months always letting her down.... then he left a note saying he couldnt cope with it all after trying to get back together with me but i didnt have any of it..... didnt see her for 3-4 yrs..... no contact, bday cards. money.... nothing...... I text him after my first hip operation 3 years ago..... took him a few months to reply... but he has been part f her life ever since! She knows no different!!! He split with his girlfriend of 4 yrs just before xmas.... me and OH put him up at OH's flat over the road.... fed him.... washed his clothes.... did everything for him!!!!! Have never had a penny off him..... he is on the bare bones of his backside...... I give him savages child benefit money each weekend so he can take her out to do stuff with... when he has her during the holidays he gets that and her tax credits also!!!! Each birthay and christmas every present i buy i put his name on it also! He happily sits round xmas day getting the thanks but never contributes!!! This never bothered me until NOW lol I always thought to myself one day he would see her right when he was able to. We helped him get a place to live so he didnt feel a burden to OH..... he was working for his brother doing up a bungalow for his mum in gloucester as he is a builder.... he was not getting paid for this either! So he would travel down every weekend to she DD. Ive lent him dosh.... listed things on ebay for him.... involved him with everything!!! Mates joke I have two OH's !!!!!!!!!! So this is totally baffled me as we get on so very well?!?!?!?! If I want to B! tch - i go to him... and vice versa!
He stays in my living room when me and OH go out for a saturday night out, I only did his washing for him last weekend !!!! He helps himself to sandwiches... drinks etc... like an open house really!!!! I am totally confuzzled!!!!!! And I really hope he isnt back on the coke again!!!!! He is a great dad!!!!!!
I cant figure out what is going on as he won answer mobile! I have text to say I will call him in half an hour and whatever the problem we will always work it out as we always have done, told him not to be silly and if he had fallen off the wagon just for one wekend it isnt a problem!!!!! Told him the savage thinks he has had to work overtime so to speak, let him know that OH had taken hem to cinema so when I did ring we could both chat freely......... and when I did he still didnt answer!

As much as I want to ring him... and his neck... I am trying not to pester him! He is obviously "not of sound mind" lol

I just dont know what else to do!!!! I feel sick to the tummy Arghhhhhhh - I have become like the rest of you now by winging openly on the main board;):p

Arghhhh grrrrrrrrrr bahhhhhhh hhhhhmmmmffffttttttttt I dont know where to put myself ........ perhaps if I go back to bed I wont think about it!!!! :rotfl:

((((((((((((POLO)))))))))))))))) x x x x x x x

orangelily8

11.17
Not me :rolleyes:

sparky61

11:17 not me, hope it was one of you