Game Over, or could a mod lock this please xxxx

toniq

Never let a man see you are desperate for them, it is a turn off, let him see you have a life, let him want you, why should you chase him, keep youself busy with friends (not puter!), enjoy your twenties, go clubbing, get hammered,do those crazy things you do with girly friends, and watch him want some of your time xxxx

flamingice

last night he mumbled something about space, but i've barely seen him recently so i dunno where that's come from
he's never really been very affectionate of his own accord and quite often i have to ask him for a hug, he's just not an affectionate person and he gets annoyed sometimes that i need it when he doesn't

it's weird because last week he said he loved me and wanted us to go away together in the summer and now he's being all weird and horrible to me
and i know he's going through a lot lately but there's only so much rejection i can take
and most of the time it is good between us but earlier this year for a couple of weeks in feb he was really horrible and then again now, i don't know why he's being like this

i don't know i think maybe i focus too much attention on him but he really does mean everything to me

toniq

toniq

Time for.........

sparky61

flamingice wrote: »

does anyone else think this is out of order:
we were out last night and oh kept shrugging me off when i tried to hug him and when i sat down next to him on this sofa he got up and went and sat in a different chair
when i asked him why he was being weird he just asked me to leave him alone

I don't usually comment on peoples relationships, but, this has been bugging me for a while now, and hearing how upset he's been making you, I felt I had to say something, sorry if it's not what you wanted to hear.


He is totally out of order, no matter what problems he may be having, he has no right to take it out on you.

You are not a doormat, don't let him treat you like one, and remember ...... A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle.

And don't worry about pouring your heart out, and, I think I speak for all of us, we're happy to listen.

Take care

kadiekaismummi

19.23 gone

scottishfreebiehunter

Not me....
I was on the phone to my dad and he had to answer door said back in a minute ,was waiting 5 mins later heard him wandering around putting tv on etc:rolleyes::rotfl:now answering machine silly man forgot to come back:rotfl::rotfl:

torianut

19.23 - not me !! ahh well only 37 mins until the next click!!

scottishfreebiehunter

bunn please delete above post will pm you

flamingice

thanks everyone
i don't really know what to do, i don't know how to give him space really as if i dont speak to him for a day i get really sad, so to give him space i don't know what i'm meant to do, if i'm meant ot just not contact him at all for a certain amount of time or what... i just find it hard to distance myself from him

my mum thinks i should phone his mum and say i'm worried about him and see if he's being horrible to her as well (she likes me) as i think perhaps this may be a more widespread general thing