Feeling A Bit Down and Peed Off.........

homersimpson_3

James
First of all- well done for reducing debt from 13k to 11k.
Secondly don't beat yourself up for spending the money- everyone, including the most frugal (like me) often feel they have wasted money or missed out on opportunities to earn/make money. People are human and occasionally we will falter. I do!
You do however need to start thinking about and making provision just in case the worst comes to the worst. You will need every penny and if tests ok you will have nice little pot of money. Going out frequently with people from work is an expensive hobby and the reason I rarely go out with colleagues. You can easily spend £40 or more. Is there anyone else you could go out with or go around to their house?. If overtime offered snap it up. it will take your mind off tests. Keep yourself busy but try (if possible) to avoid being alone too much. Yes you can go for a walk, read a book but too much time spent on your own can be dangerous- too easy for the mind to start thinking and wandering!.
Hope tests come back ok (good news). if not just remember life is what you make it and most people adapt even if the don't like the circumstances (half full/half empty glass). it's a cliche but it does contain element of truth. homer

James240

Thanks homersimpson

Will take your advice on board like i have with everyone else that has replied , must say a big thanks to all u guys that have replied, especailly to Ember999 who has helped me a massive amount. your support has meant a massive amount to me and i will try to keep my head up and keep busy as much as possiable.

Going to start going to the gym again starting tonight and see if that will help me at all to take my mind off of things...............

Ember999

James240 wrote:

Thanks homersimpson

Will take your advice on board like i have with everyone else that has replied , must say a big thanks to all u guys that have replied, especailly to Ember999 who has helped me a massive amount. your support has meant a massive amount to me and i will try to keep my head up and keep busy as much as possiable.

Going to start going to the gym again starting tonight and see if that will help me at all to take my mind off of things...............

Hi James240,

Glad to hear you are going to the Gym, that's great news! Keeping your body fit keeps the mind fit and helps you de-stress and releases all those 'feel good' hormones....
Always here for you, don't forget that
Ember xx

James240

Thanks Ember much appreciated x :grouphug: