Light at the end of the tunnel

tazladytaz

chevalier wrote: »

glad that something is at last going your way. only thing is will your ex actually pay?

Not too sure, that is why I am using another account. That way I wont "use" the money unless it is actually there.

kizzykizzywizzy

Hopefully they can just take it out of his salary???

tazladytaz

kizzykizzywizzy wrote: »

Hopefully they can just take it out of his salary???

In the past he has quit his job, rather than pay any money. But I understand he has a new family now, so he needs to support them.
My kids and I haven't seen him in over 7 years. My youngest is 8 in November and i was pregnant with him when my ex left.

I have a good feeling that this time he will pay, but even if he quits his job he will have to pay £20 a month, which is more than we have had before. As i have said before, in the last 7+ years he has paid a total of £400 towards his kids.

kizzykizzywizzy

I hope you are happy now, besides the financial side & to be honest, he's the one who's missed out on his children.
What price can you put on seeing your children grow up
Also very brave of you to leave him whilst pregnant, you sound like a very strong lady;)