Would you be annoyed?

Tori_Bellatrix

I recently bagged up some stuff to take to a charity shop - some of it brand new and unused - and gave the bags to a friend as she was going to drop stuff up there ...

Anyhow, yesterday she came round with a friend who let slip that he had gone through the bags and taken one of the brand new objects for himself.

At first I didn't know what to say but having slept on it, I'm quite annoyed :mad: (And it's not often I use that smilie). I had wanted the charity to make money not for some random person to keep it for himself ...

Am I overreacting or should I just chill out over it ..

ahai1

I would be annoyed but I would live it and in future take the stuff myself to the shops.

emmy05

yes, id be annoyed as well i guess, put it down to experience, it wouldve been nice if this friend had asked to begin with really x

cupid_s

next time you see them could you not just mention that that item was meant for the charity shop, and so it would be nice if they would make a small donation as they took the item?

Tori_Bellatrix

Yes, that's an idea cupid_s ..

ahai1

I would just leave it as it's not worth bringing up.

GiveItBack

not sure it's worth bringing up again - unless the friend does, in which case you could say something like 'and I hope you made a donation', but say it in a cheeky manner.