i'm new and need to offload in cyber space

ck77

Dear ivehadenough

i read this board every day to give me hope and inspiration that other people are managing to get through debt problems like myself but your post made me finally register so i could post a reply to you.

this website is a fantastic resource for offloading and getting a whole raft of advice from lovely, caring people that are in the same boat as you.

I'd echo the advice of a previous poster and say you should think about contacting The Samaritans if you're feeling suicidal. Will really help to talk to someone about everything and just hear things out loud for once when you feel you can't talk to family or work colleagues about what you're going through. Their number is 08457 90 90 90, and they can even call you back if you're worried about the phone bill.

Lots of well wishes from me, and hope things get better. You're not alone in this and coming here and posting is the first really positive step, well done.

[Deleted User]

I know how you feel, have just come on here as I was in tears on the phone (again) to Halifax. I was in accounts too but got into a mess (sons) and went to CSA who helped, am just getting a bit more up to scratch and Halifax stop the hold on interest, so the amount I was paying is in a shortfall of about £10 p.m. so its getting worse. Have no credit rating at all so cannot do snoozing thing. Will contact CCC as others have advised to see if they can help. Have just told Halifax that I should maybe stop paying and let them take me to court rather than pay under, have debt increase and then wait 6 months for them to try to wipe debt off maybe !!! I felt soooo ashamed when I went to CSA and no-one knows about my probs either, you would think an OAP who worked in accounts would never get in a mess, I also have Income & Exp and spreadsheets etc etc coming out of my ears/PC.
Just really hang on, contact all these folks and know that there are lots even worse than you, and some of them are alone. :A

mumoftwins

Ivehadenough - are you there???

Please come back on and let us know that you are ok - we want to help you , please don't feel alone anymore - if you want to pm me or anyone else on here then we will support you through this awful time.

I say awful as I was in your shoes 12 months ago and eventually 6 months later I posted on here and have had fabulous help so I know that their help will help you too.

emmy05

i hope you get here to this thread, im just wondering if you might well log in again in the early hours, im hoping you dont feel alone when you read here xx

bountiful

just bumping.....

aligerdie

just bumping this thread again, please come back, we want to know how you are.

xxxx

mumoftwins

Bumping again!

Surfbabe

Bumping again - Ivehad enough please come back on - we are all getting worried about you.

HHH_2

We are all concerned about you please let us know how you are

mom23

Thanks for bumping this thread.
I keep popping on to make sure it's not been lost but might of known you caring lot would also bump!
Please ivehadenough come back just to say "hello" you dont have to give us any financial info if you dont want to,but we are all feeling concerned about you and want to know that you are ok.
Big Hugs