Its done Im finally bankrupt!

NekoZombie

LouLou, fantastic post, thank you for sharing with us. Incredibly brave...

neko

cazjenki

I am so pleased for you, at this moment in time I am in the same situation, CAB have worked I have £8 left over from my benefits and have advised me to go bankrupt,I feel sick thinking about it. I am so glad you have been given a second chance. Feel free to post any advise on my post, I need all the help I can get at the moment, I have allsorts running through my head.

LesleyL_2

thank you for such an inspiring post :T
good luck with your new happier life !

ginalove

well done lou lou it takes a lot of guts to admit these probs . what help did you get to detox??? gina xx

tigerfeet2006

:T YAAAY!!:T Well done you on the detox. You go :j

Glad the BR went well for you.

Spirit_2

Well done, you have had an interesting start to 2008. :j

It is fantastic how much satisfaction you can get from feeding your family and doing 'normal' stuff. Enjoy it. Your children must also be delighted, I am bowled over by your courage and the steps you have taken.:T :T :T

Spirit

loulou6

villageidiot wrote: »

Well done,have an orange squash on me :beer:

tried pomegranate juice last night not going there again:eek:, sticking to diet coke,& orange juice.

thankyou
loulou

emmy05

well done lou, thanks for posting this too xx

loulou6

ginalove wrote: »

well done lou lou it takes a lot of guts to admit these probs . what help did you get to detox??? gina xx

thankyou gina
started off by going to docs, then referred to GDAS which is a sort of councelling place and you can have free acupuncture in your ears which makes you feel really groovy and relaxed, then refered to local hospital who deal with drugs and alcohol and they set up the dettox, If I didnt have all the support from family, friends, and the new friends at GDAS I wouldn't of done it.
Hope this helps loulou

loulou6

cazjenki wrote: »

I am so pleased for you, at this moment in time I am in the same situation, CAB have worked I have £8 left over from my benefits and have advised me to go bankrupt,I feel sick thinking about it. I am so glad you have been given a second chance. Feel free to post any advise on my post, I need all the help I can get at the moment, I have allsorts running through my head.

All I can say is that the experience i had filling out the forms for B/R made me feel sick, scared, dirty, useless, and many other feelings were going on.
But then the phone would ring and people were demanding money I wouldn't open the post my mum would, then i had a letter saying that the balliffs were coming if i didnt pay my bill, I pooed my pants!!:eek:

That was it for me after 2 weeks farting around with the forms (which i did online) i completed them then rang the court to get a date to go see them this was done all in one day. I had an appointment for 9.15 by that time 4 other people became bankrupt the court was amazing especially the security guards they told us step by step how thing were going to happen who people were, and telling us jokes it wasnt that scary. I didn't even see a judge!!
you must truely think hard its not easy,go through everything with the CAB, make sure your home is not in threat as i was told that because i had arrears i would be evicted, My parents bless them are paying it for me at £10 a week.
Check and double check. ask alot of questions even if you think they are silly ask.
I hope this helps
GOOD LUCK dont keep things to yourself speak to people xxxxxxx
loulou xxx