Daily Chat Thread 30th Jan

E-bay_queen

Maybe, what can i do to help him open up cos it not helping me, it pushing me away

angelflower_2

hey ebay queen...sounds like a difficult time especially where the relationship is concerned. Afraid I am last one to give relationship advice so instead will just give a big hug.

Hope everyone else is good, not had much chance to catch up over last few days cause guess what........I've been working !!!!!!!

lauradora

Now this is where my help ends cos i'm rubbish at this sort of thing!!! If it were me I'd get him drunk, but thats why i'm still single!!!

PurpleTeddyBear

EbayQueen

what to suggest, but seems as if like has already been said you're both dealing with lots of emotional stuff in different ways. I know when I am stressed about something I *used* to spend, and DH sits there and says nowt (true Yorkshire bloke).

However, I think you need to get things out into the open, and the only way you can do this is by setting some time aside to talk if you can. Perhaps find somewhere neutral (local park, beach....) go for a walk and have a snowball fight or something? Something different so you're not at home.

Try and let him know how you're feeling rather than making sure he is okay, then he knows what's going on in your head? I know I am the world's worst for bottling things up and it helps no-one in the end....not that I am saying you are bottling things up though.

What about getting a nice meal together (at home if need be).

Feeling hopeless won't achieve anything and I know it's easier said then done, please don't take that as being harsh....it's not meant to be.

We're all for you hunnybun, and big dodgy group huggle for you! :grouphug:

Lots of love

PTB xx

MaggieBear

oh ebayqueen, that sounds very hard. *big hugs*

Having a quiet here today, just work and looking forward to snuggling in this evening in front of Torchwood

Conrad

The average person lives 960 months. Not long really!

Anyone interested in talking about the really big issues here? For example did you know that no more atoms exist other than those that came from the original ball of gass and rock (the singularity) that then became stars, planets, air, then simple organisms, dinosaurs and eventually to you?

Your atoms once formed other things, dinosaurs, beetles and rocks. So next time you crush a fly or chow down on a mis treated battery hen at KFCs - think about the fact your atoms could will one day end up inside a chicken to be devourded by some other un thinking Human, who cares lots for celeb magazines but nothing for the really big questions.

Gemmzie

Grrrrrrrrrrrrr I could cry today I really could.

lauradora

Gemmzie wrote: »

Grrrrrrrrrrrrr I could cry today I really could.

Oh no! Another one! Whats up babe??:grouphug:

mrs-d_3

Hi all hope you don't mind me joining you. Big hugs for ebay queen. I agree with PTB you need to sit down and have a good chat. He needs to know how you feel. I'm also a bit concerned for you as you said you had a misscarriage, have you been to see anyone to talk about it? Also your husband has he? That kind of thing affects both but the problem is men tend to hide it, I think it might be something to do with pride.
We lost a baby to still birth couple of years ago so I speak from experience. My DH found it very hard straight after but for me it was like something unreal at first. It wasn't until 6mth after, that it hit me full on. So when you sit down to talk, talk about your miscarriage too. Also I would suggest for you to go and talk to someone like your GP. All the best.

Sea78

hugs gemmzie

Sea xxx