Daily Chat Thread 30th Jan

Sea78

Oh honey - sounds like a mirror of my life sweetie! Massive hugs.

What does he say about it all?

Sea xx

sallyx

E-bay_queen wrote: »

Moved from bexleyheath in kent to harwich noth essex, I dont drive. In the last 18 months i had you miscarrige, put on weight, dont feel good bout myself, Just hit me how low i feel and no one to tell, i just keep smileing maybe everything go away.

Sounds like you have had an awful lot to deal with. Does your DH know how you feel about miscarriage, weight and yourself? Maybe if you open up to him he might be able to give you some support.

What about friends where you used to live? and family?

lauradora

A good point and have you tried talking to him about it??

E-bay_queen

sea78: He dont say much i try talking to him how i feel and always asking him if he ok, We both had our LBM 2 years ago when we wanted to buy a house, Since the summer it been spending all the saving money on junk i call it.

always_amazed

hugs xxx tis time of year it can really hit you out of the blue for some reason; stuff you've 'dealt with' for months seems to finally come out.

Have you suggested getting away with him??

E-bay_queen

best mate was ment to come and stay for a few weeks this week and let me down again,
Is it a bad thing just want to get away for a few days?
Family dont know what happen, dont have any real close friends.

lauradora

Woohoo! :j :j :j

Bingo money just hit my account!!!!

Got to buy car tax and then sticking the rest on debts!!!

E-bay_queen

This lunch time i ask him and he say no we dont need to get away

lauradora

Doesn't sound like much of a conversation! Didn't he even discuss it with you??

Penny2myName

Reading between the lines, it may be possible that his 'junk' spending of late, is his way of dealing with an emotional issue which will have effected both of you. As it appears he is buying stuff which are distraction items.