at the risk of sounding really rude, from what you have decribed I would not want your mother owning 50% of the house, as she sounds quite ruthless, so could you hand on heart know she wouldn't want bought out or similar when it didn't necessairly suit you.
For that reason your second option sounds much the better obviously assuming she agrees.
good luck whatever you decide
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