We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

Problem with eBay

Back in March I ordered an item on eBay, paid the asking price and sat back and looked forward to receiving it.

Sadly this wasn't to be - initially the seller said there was a delay in sending the item. This went on fo some time until I decided enough was enough and contacted the seller to ask for a Refund. I was gobsmacked when the seller declined the request.

I have tried escalating further on eBay but just seem to be going around in a circle with the AI .

I have tried contacting the seller again (it is now over 6 months since the initial order) but they are not responding. I am at my withs end, okay it's only £35 but it still matters to me.

Any advice or suggestions greatfully received.

Comments

  • user1977
    user1977 Posts: 20,003
    Eighth Anniversary 10,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    Forumite

    Think you'll need to explain what you mean by "going around in a circle", as it sounds like a straightforward item not received case?

  • Aging_Punk
    Aging_Punk Posts: 7
    Second Anniversary First Post
    Forumite
    edited 17 October at 11:53AM

    I think it relates back to the length of time since the order.

    When I go to the report Item not received section it shows me a list of recent purchases which doesn't include the Not Received item - when I click on my Purchased items the item is there with the following info

    "Order info

    Time placed25 Mar 2026 at 9:32 AMOrder number12-14409-65818Total£30.00 (1 item)Sold by*********

    Delivery info

    Paid

    25 Mar-Paid on 25 March

    Tracking available

    -Upcoming step, Tracking available

    Delivered

    -Upcoming step, Delivered

    Tracking details

    Postal serviceCollect+ Economy TrackedCourierCollectPlus

    Item details

    Under Armour WRU Wales SHIRT TRIKOT JERSY CAMISETA MAGL size 3XL

    £15.00Unit price £15.00

    Item number: 405540303725

    Return window closed on 5 May 2026.

    incl.

    Buyer Protection

    Buy again

    More actions

    Other actions

    View invoice

    See cancellation details

    Contact seller"

    When I check the item was £15, £10 for P&P & £5 VAT

    Clicking on "Buyer Protection" basically just tells you what Buyer Protection can do.

    Clicking on "More Actions" gives options to "Buy Similar", "Contact Seller", "Sell One Like This" or "View All Details" (View All Details just shows me the Date & Time of the Purchase and that the Auction has ended.

    In the Other Actions "See Cancellation Details" just tells me that the Buyer has declined my request to cancel the Purchase (although I still retain the right to Return it within 30 days of receipt)

    I think the problem is that as the item hasn't been dispatched I can't return it and, as it is now over 6 months ago, eBay doesn't recognise that it hasn't been received.

  • Alderbank
    Alderbank Posts: 4,564
    Tenth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Forumite

    You must redact all links to the personal details of the seller.

    That's a serious breach of MSE's rules. Do it now!

    I see from what you have posted that the seller is in Poland, is a private seller and has steadily sold one or two football shirts a week for many years.

    Do you think your shirt might be stuck in customs?

  • soolin
    soolin Posts: 75,547
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    Ambassador

    If this was bought 6 months ago then you are way outside the eBay buyer protection window which is 30 days from the last estimated delivery date. If you had been within the 30 days it would have been a simple INR which, without proof of delivery from the seller , you would have won easily.

    Depending on how you paid there is a slim chance of using protection offered by that payment method to get your money back.

    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the eBay, Auctions, Car Boot & Jumble Sales, Boost Your Income, Praise, Vents & Warnings, Overseas Holidays & Travel Planning , UK Holidays, Days Out & Entertainments boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know.. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com.All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.
  • savergrant
    savergrant Posts: 2,193
    1,000 Posts Fourth Anniversary Name Dropper
    Forumite
    edited 18 October at 8:03AM

    Sadly when the seller told you there was a delay in dispatching the item you should have demanded a refund and asked the seller to relist when they were able to dispatch. If they refused then you would report 'item not received' as soon as the last estimated delivery date had passed.

    What reasons has the seller given for the delay?

    Unfortunately I don’t think you even have the option to leave feedback now, as that has a 90 day time limit.

★ ★ ★ Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 355.8K Banking & Borrowing
  • 254.9K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 456.2K Spending & Discounts
  • 248.3K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 605.9K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 179K Life & Family
  • 263.8K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.2K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.