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You can gift any amount, prove me wrong

greyflanneltrousers
greyflanneltrousers Posts: 28 Forumite
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BLUF: family member with £250k estate, considering gifting ~10% per year each to two family members while fit and independent.

EDIT: 10% was a figure plucked, in reality I think it would be £10k. £250k consists of a flat at £60k and the remainder in cash. Family member is receiving a £14k pa pension (state+defined benefit from NHS employment).


TL;DR:

IHT rules and care-home funding rules are different. If gifts don’t cause an IHT issue and the older person is genuinely happy to accept a council-chosen care home later if needed, then as far as I can see there’s no law or penalty that prevents gifting significant sums now. Prove me wrong.


DETAILS:


I’ve been trying to separate out tax on gifts from care-home funding, because they often get mashed together.


As I understand it:


* Inheritance Tax is one thing (7-year rule, allowances, etc).


* Care-home funding is means-tested and about who pays, not tax.


* The 7-year rule doesn’t really matter if the estate is under IHT thresholds anyway.


The usual warning people give is “the council will say it’s deprivation of assets”. I get that — councils can treat gifts as notional capital if they think they were made to reduce care fees and there’s no time limit to it. But that isn’t a legal penalty: there’s no crime, no fine, no court, and gifts aren’t normally undone or clawed back from family in practice; the usual mechanism is treating the giver as still having the money (notional capital).


The practical impact is on how care is assessed and the choice of care home, not whether care is provided at all.


So it seems to me the real, practical position is: 


* It’s the older person’s choice.


* They can gift any amount to children or grandchildren while fit and independent without breaking any laws.


* The only sensible constraint is keeping enough money for their own current life and comfort.


* If they’re genuinely relaxed about council-chosen care later, the rest feels more about values than rules.


What am I missing?


CAVEATS:


MORALS: I’m not making a moral argument — just trying to understand how the rules actually operate in practice.


CARE: I appreciate many people choose to retain assets to preserve choice and quality of care — I’m explicitly assuming that choice isn’t a priority.


RECOVERY: recovery powers do exist, but everything I’ve read suggests this is rare and typically involves trusts or very large, deliberate asset transfers.


LEGAL: Deprivation isn’t a criminal concept — it’s a funding assessment mechanism.


Happy to be corrected — but looking for actual consequences, not just “the council won’t like it”. 


If I’m wrong, I’m particularly interested in examples where ordinary cash gifts (not trusts or property transfers) led to a materially worse outcome.


Thank you.

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  • 2childmum2
    2childmum2 Posts: 280 Forumite
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    I think if the council count the gift as deprivation of assets they won't pay for any care because they count the money you have given away as still yours and expect you to use it to pay for your own care.

  • Grumpy_chap
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    "

    family member with £250k estate, considering gifting ~10% per year each to two family members while fit and independent.

    "

    Legally, anyone can gift anyone any amount they wish.

    Is the £250k the value of the total estate (including home) or liquid assets?

    Are you saying that "A" has £250k total and will gift £25k to "B" and £25k to "C" in year one, leaving "A" with residual £200k?

    In year two, "A" will gift £20k to "B" and £20k to "C", leaving "A" with residual £160k?

    And so on…

    "A" can chose to do that. I assume that "A" is of sound mind and with full mental capacity, i.e. none of this gifting is being implemented under PoA.

    IMO, it would be completely absurd for "A" to do this but simply taking what might be considered an unwise decision is not of itself insanity.

    If the total estate is £250k, IHT (and any associated parameters) is wholly irrelevant.

    "

    Care-home funding is means-tested and about who pays, not tax.

    "

    "

    the council will say it’s deprivation of assets

    "

    "

    If they’re genuinely relaxed about council-chosen care

    "

    Gifting such large amounts by an elderly individual will almost certainly be determined as DoA should care needs require funding.

    It is not just about accepting "council-chosen" care but the choice of the type of care, where and when that care comes into force. "Council-chosen" care will be the barest minimum that can be provided at the latest possible point in time.

    If the Council determine DoA, then the individual will be assessed as still having that capital and "council-chosen" care will not be available. The individual will be expected to fund their own care from the notional capital that they are deemed to have despite having gifted the capital. Will the gift recipients still have the capital unspent and gift it back to meet the care costs arising?

    Being unable to have care as required because money was gifted seems to wholly contradict "

    The only sensible constraint is keeping enough money for their own current life and comfort

    "

  • Yes — that’s my understanding too: it’s treated as notional capital for assessment purposes rather than a penalty or clawback, and care is still provided based on assessed need.

  • Thanks — this is helpful and broadly aligns with my understanding.

    I agree deprivation would almost certainly be found and notional capital applied. My point wasn’t that this has no impact, but that the impact is on assessment and choice, not that care is refused or that gifts are reversed or penalised.

    I fully accept it may result in later, more basic provision and less flexibility — that’s the trade-off I’m trying to understand in practical terms.

    On the point about future uncertainty: I agree reducing assets carries risk, which is why the focus is on moderation and retaining a meaningful buffer, not aggressive gifting.

    It’s also helped to sanity-check the scale — the ~20% I mentioned was arbitrary and, as you say, likely not sustainable long-term, which is exactly why I’m here: to help a relative put the needle in the right place.

  • Grumpy_chap
    Grumpy_chap Posts: 20,455 Forumite
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    "

    I agree deprivation would almost certainly be found and notional capital applied. My point wasn’t that this has no impact, but that the impact is on assessment and choice, not that care is refused or that gifts are reversed or penalised.

    "

    No. You have misunderstood me and how I understand the Council will operate.

    The initial impact of having gifted the funds will be a restriction on assessment and choice or what type of care is required and when.

    The second impact will be that when the Council assess that care is required, the financial assessment will be undertaken and the notional capital determined and the elderly individual will then be required to self-fund. The Council will not fund the care in the absence of the self-funding. The gift recipients will be required to fund the care. No care will be provided if that care is not funded. (The exception might be if there are other assets still in the estate against which the Council can take a legal charge but in this case the suggestion is no other assets. That process is also slow and would delay access to the care that is required.)

    Care will be refused. Gift recipients will be expected to remedy the funding.

  • Aretnap
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    Is there any particular reason to think that your family member will need to go into a care home? Most people don't, and most of those that only need it for a fairly short period of time

  • Grumpy_chap
    Grumpy_chap Posts: 20,455 Forumite
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    No

    The individual has to fund the care from the notional capital and the Council only start to fund once the notional capital has been spent on care

  • Thanks — I think we’re actually closer than it might sound, but I want to clarify one point where I think things are being overstated.

    I fully agree that deprivation would almost certainly be found and that notional capital would be applied, with reduced choice, delays and more basic provision. I also accept that this can make access slower and more difficult in practice — that’s part of the trade-off I’m trying to understand.

    Where I don’t agree is the suggestion that care would simply not be provided, or that gift recipients are required to fund it. My understanding is that councils still have a duty to meet assessed needs even where funding is disputed — the issue becomes charging, recovery and the level/type of provision, not a blanket refusal of care.

    I also want to be careful not to overstate clawback. Recovery from gift recipients exists in law as a backstop, but everything I’ve read suggests it is exceptional rather than routine. The normal and overwhelmingly common mechanism is treating the individual as still having the capital (notional capital), not reversing gifts or routinely pursuing family members.

    If there are real-world examples where ordinary cash gifts (not trusts or property transfers) were routinely recovered from recipients, I’d genuinely be interested to see them — that’s the practical boundary I’m trying to pin down.

  • Fair question — no specific reason beyond general age-related uncertainty. The assumption isn’t that care will definitely be needed, just that it might be at some point, and I’m trying to understand how the rules work if that happens rather than plan around a certainty.

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