Laura's turn on top! 2008 DF diary xxx 5 January 2008 at 1:43AM in Debt free diaries 203 replies 8.5K views

lauradora

humph :mad:

lauradora

I'm only here for a grumble.

I'm in bed hungry again and probably won't sleep well again.

To try an sum up whats been going on.....

If you've read my old diary you may have heard my whines about DD's dad and what a loser he is well to try and cut a long story short he's filed for access and is dragging me to court.

I must point out that he's had access in the past and had made a right old balls of it.

There's been an interim hearing this past week which has ruled in mine and DD's favout for him to have 2 hours a week supervised visits a week however now he reckons he's taking that to appeal.

This is not to mention that there will be a final hearing in December before which CAFCASS have to get involved and file reports on me, on him on DD's school etc its all very traumatic on her and me and not to mention the ninety odd quid its costing me in legal fees a month from august onwards.

So this is the reason i'm all :mad: at the minute, just as I think thing the dust is settling something else comes round the corner and kicks me in the face.

so.....:mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad: :mad:

So nothing paid off further into debt (allbeit a only afew more quid) and really fed up

Had a good day at work today though...the boss is away so we coc**d about all day and managed to earn bonus...and actually thinking about it thats money that could go towards 10 quid a day challenge.

i'll work it out.

so thats me

boredofbeingathome

sorry to hear that laura..what a git. (((((Hugs ))))))to you xx

lauradora

boredofbeingathome wrote: »

sorry to hear that laura..what a git. (((((Hugs ))))))to you xx

ta chuck x

pandapaws

You've every right to be :mad: :mad: :mad:

Does he pay anything at all towards your daughter? If you win do you get your £90s back? What a tw4t.

Still, you won the original hearing which is promising for the appeal. Look on the bright side - you and DD are both healthy and otherwise happy. Don't let the inseminator ruin your week.

boredofbeingathome

pandapaws wrote: »

You've every right to be :mad: :mad: :mad:

Does he pay anything at all towards your daughter? If you win do you get your £90s back? What a tw4t.

Still, you won the original hearing which is promising for the appeal. Look on the bright side - you and DD are both healthy and otherwise happy. Don't let the inseminator ruin your week.

:rotfl: :rotfl: Sorry i shouldn't laugh but that inseminater bit got me giggling, and panda i was going to ask that as well about the £90 bit..i hope you do get it back.

lauradora

boredofbeingathome wrote: »

:rotfl: :rotfl: Sorry i shouldn't laugh but that inseminater bit got me giggling, and panda i was going to ask that as well about the £90 bit..i hope you do get it back.

me too thats all he is. but no that 90 quid is hat I have to contribute towards legal aid which I suppose compared to the thousands it COULD be costing me isn't as bad as it could be

lauradora

Quick update while i'm here cos i'm soooo behind

Loan £9863.73
Forma £966.83
Overdraft £1500

Total £12330.56

Paid so far this year £2046.19

things look a bit better now i've written them down. at least everything is in 4 figures now...i'm wishing for a win on the gmtv comp to pay all this nonsense off so I can GET ON WITH MY LIFE!!!!

pandapaws

2k is a pretty good amount to have cleared when you've not exactly had wads of cash dropping through the letterbox every morning. Well done.

lauradora

thankyou hun xxx